You’ve been exchanging text messages, you went out with her, had a good time, and when you sent a follow up text message, you don’t get a response. Then you follow it up with another text a couple of days later, and still no reply.

You then start to think whether you did anything wrong, and that you thought both of you had a great time and that she liked you. So, you start driving yourself crazy wondering if there was anything that you could have done differently. You start to recap events.

You recap your date with her, and then start to question your moves. Sound familiar? Well, there is nothing that you can do now. Stop living in regret.

Remember, you had some share of ignoring SMSes too. You went out with them, but then you never called back nor replied to her text messages. It works both ways. So, stop being so upset about that person, just realize that there was no chemistry in the first place that you though you had. Move on!

Think about all the girls you dated once, you went out, didn’t like them and you didn’t bother keeping in touch. Don’t worry, if she does not text you back, it’s not the end of the world, don’t drive yourself crazy.

You will never know why someone decides not to like you. You have just got to learn that is part and parcel of dating.

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Men are visual creatures and they usually make their first judgments on women based on their appearance.

The Eyes
We look at your eyes because it speaks volume about what you’re feeling on the inside. If you like a man, chances are, your eyes will give it away. For me personally, I’m a sucker for beautiful eyes.

The Skin
Radiant skin, with little or no make-up will get our attention.

The Boobs
Like it or not, for most men, nice breasts are a sign of good health, and of course, ultimately trigger our imagination, but of course we won’t tell you EXACTLY what we’re thinking. But we can’t help it, hey, it’s out there for us to look at, it’s like your boobies are saying, “Look at me! Look at me!”.

The Lips & Teeth
Are they kissable? Is your teeth clean? The lips play an important role, just look at Angelina Jolie, without those lips, she’d be extremely ordinary.

The Stomach
Of course, the flatter the better, if you have a few pounds around the waist, it also depends on the men. For me personally, a little meat is always nice, that’s a sign of a woman, not Kate Moss who is the inspiration of stick figure cartoons.

The Butt
If you have a teardrop-shaped like butt, then all systems are go. We love a well-rounded butt, not too big and not too small. For a definition of hot butt, please see Mel’s.

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This tune has been a staple for clubbing, karaoke and you name it for over 2 decades now! But, do you know what exactly Bryan Adams’ singing about?

It sounds straightforward, he bought a guitar, played it til his fingers bled, started a rock band, but the band broke up, and he meets a chick, the best days of his life. But that’s simple not the case.

It’s actually what it is, a tune about oral sex, hidden connotations here and there. Bryan Adams said in one interview, “One thing people never got was that the song isn’t about the year 1969. It’s about making love, a la ‘69!”. The title actually came from the idea of 69 as a metaphor of sex!

“Those were the best days of our lives, when we’re doing the 69!”.

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Frankly, the novelty is dying off, just like many other TV shows. Season 1 was awesome, Season 2 was OK, Season 3 looks like it’s running out of ideas. I’m actually worried for this TV series, because it’s my favorite, and with its plot, it HAS to end really soon. This is one of those TV shows that cannot go on forever. I’m hoping Season 4 to be its last, seeing that it’s viewership in America has been dropping approximately 2 million per season.

Confessedly, the third season is good viewing – but this series can no longer be taken critically. The conspiracies of the first 2 season are no longer there, and there are twists that have strained its believability.

The show seemed to ran out of ideas towards the end, maybe because of the writer’s strike that abruptly ended the season at episode 13. It is still interesting to see the direction of Season 4, but I’m not putting too much hope on it.

This show to me, was a must to all males on the planet, especially the first season. These days, it’s reduced to a guilty pleasure, but, still watchable and beats the living crap out of crappy TV shows like Lost, 24 and Heroes.

7/10 on the Gallivanter scale.

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Everything ends. So, does it also apply to love, that powerful attraction? If that is the case, then the strong attraction that you felt in the beginning of your relationship might just be lust. Something that developed during the heat of the moment in the throes of passion. Marriage of convenience.

Chemistry between couples brings cohesiveness to love, hence, couples with diverse ideologies can never be one as they are worlds apart and nothing will change that. Sure, everyone’s unique, but, difference should not be an obstacle to love. Love accommodates.

The lack of commitment is another recipe for a short lived affair. The lack of responsibility too. Bottomline is, love may come and go, but it’s up to us to make it stay - it takes effort.

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“Islands in the Stream” was a 1983 hit single by Kenny Rogers & Dolly Parton. It was a song written by the Bee Gees. Pras did a remake in the 90s with Ghetto Supastar. Even Bee Gees sang it too, but it was rather a weak effort. This song is a must for your Karaoke fanatics. A truly catchy country song, and one of my favorites.

Kenny Rogers & Dolly Parton - Islands in the Stream

Islands in the stream, that is what we are
No one in between, how can we be wrong.
Sail away with me, to another world
And we rely on each other, uh huh
From one lover to another, uh huh

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This is a pleasant sounding track. Unfortunately, I haven’t a clue who this dude is, but on first impression, he sounds like a Chris Brown clone. Still, this track is not too tatty, it has a nice rhythmic hook, which is a plus.

Danny Fernandes - Private Dancer

(2 votes, average: 7.5 out of 10)

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Alcohol, if consumed reasonably, can make sex much more energizing and fun. Self-consciousness is out the window and opinions no longer matter. You become more extroverted , though it can affect your higher cognitive process.

Alcohol can positively influence a person’s sexual arousal , if ingested moderately. It bumps off any suppressions that can make sexual encounters look unimaginable.

The relationship between sex and alcohol becomes more complicated if intemperately downed . Alcohol ingestion is known to dilute sexual reactions even after a couple of drinks. This blackball wallop is mostly experienced by women, confining her ability to be sexually aroused.

When consumed heavily, sex becomes out of the question, as the person becomes too nobbled to perform. The overall level of sexual atonement is evidently higher for non alcoholics as compared to alcoholics.

The ultimate sexual delight can only be accomplished through a sober mind and body. Still, a fistful of red or white wine should do wonders that slays invagination.

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Firstly, I think, overall, it’s an improvement of Season 6. This season focuses on Clark’s cousin Kara (who’s Supergirl), Lana’s ever-dodgy behaviour (gets annoying, I can’t wait for her character to die!), Chloe who realizes she’s a meteor-freak. There’s one death in this season, which is expected for Superman, but unexpected at this stage.

Lex becomes more hated, and you can see why, even you might start to hate him, and possibly shocked of what he’s become. Well, it’s keeping in line with the comic. There are many twists and turns in the second half of the season, which is OKAY.

Smallville 7, like many other TV shows, was caught in the middle of the Writers Guild boycott, which caused this season to end prematurely, but not as bad as Prison Break 3.

Overall, I rate Smallville Season 7 a 7/10 on the Gallivanter scale.

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You may be, and you may not be aware of it. I’m keeping this as simple as possible.

1. Keep track of your accomplishments. Don’t take it for granted.

2. Don’t leave your previous job on a bad note. Karma’s a bitch.

3. Network yourself. Tell everyone you know that you’re on the lookout for a job.

4. Don’t just stick to internet search. Newspaper (especially Saturdays) helps bigtime!

5. Don’t search for the perfect job. You’ll forever be jobless. Lower your expectations. Give and take.

6. Boring cover letter. Edit it EVERYTIME you apply for a new job. Match your words with the job roles.

7. Typos - again, taken for granted. Use spell-checker, or grammar-checks. Get someone to proof-read it.

8. Don’t give your current work contact as the best place to reach you. It’ll backfire.

9. Focus the cover letter on the new company, not on yourself.

10. Adapt your resume for specific positions. Word it each time to veer towards the job requirements.

11. NEVER EVER show up late.

12. Don’t dress like a clown. I interviewed a dope once. He wore torn jeans. I sent him home.

13. Ask questions - good ones. Not, “Can I got back home sharp everyday?”.

14. Bitching about a former boss or company. BIG mistake.

15. PAY attention. Switch off your mobile phone.

16. Read about the job position and company. Learn and understand, not memorize.

17. Forgetting etiquette. Don’t cross your arms, or put it on your head and lean back. Don’t be a jerkoff.

18. NEVER ask for salary during the first interview. Let the interviewer bring it up, if not bring it up at the end of the interview, one of your last questions.

19. Don’t follow up aggressively. I interviewed this dude last week and he’s been calling me ever since.

20. Keep track of your job applications. Don’t forget what you applied for.

21. Even after a few interviews, don’t stop your job hunt. Keep it going, another opportunity might knock.

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