Don’t be a Whiny Sod
SharePosted on 06. Jun, 2007 by Gallivanter in Thoughts
We’ve all encountered moaners. Moaners are people with nothing nice to say and tend to pout all the time. They always end sentences with the word “sucks”, and annoy others around them just for thrills. I keep my distance.
Whiny sods love being contentious for no reason, pay attention to yourself when you realize people around you are positively rebutting your remarks. There is a time and day for negative discussion. Spare it!
Friends who are used to your yammering will soon start disregarding your input without consideration. Nobody likes a grumbler. Soon, we’ll start avoiding you, and finally stop inviting you altogether.
If all you do is complain complain complain on a daily basis, please admit yourself into a funny house. That’s probably the only place where people would listen to you, of course, they’re paid to.
Learn to know how and when to carry your negativity. Kapish?
bhazy
Jun 6th, 2007
great post, something that hits home with me and my negative family lol!
Faiez
Jun 6th, 2007
I can’t tolerate a whiner who whines as if like ONLY his/her life (job, whatever, etc) suck and the rest of us in this world is living a fantabulous life. Pfft!
Also, I can’t stand a whiner who only whines but do nothing about it.
I whine too… and moan… and sulk…
but kenala ada batasan… whine dlm blog dah la, in real life tolong la jadi org normal, hahaha!
Mr D
Jun 6th, 2007
So true…..I say always look on the bright side of life. (Start whistling to the song now!!)
tihtahpah
Jun 6th, 2007
Eh..sounds like the post i did about SELF PITY some time ago. i think human are naturally complainers. but i dont like complainers who do nothing about it. At lesat rant and do something!
huei
Jun 6th, 2007
hahahahha thats y i always rant it all out on my blog than complain to someone in live
i hate it when ppl start complaining to me..
what’s worst is if someone sms u about her daily life…
“omg the news today say…..”
“wah i drank that thing it was so….”
=.=
susie_q
Jun 6th, 2007
hmm.. that was a rather whiny post, wouldn’t you say?..
Gallivanter
Jun 6th, 2007
bhazy Yeah, people got start being so negative and be thankful for what they have.
Faiez I agree, there’s a boundary. Know when to say it and how to say it without affecting other people’s mood.
Mr D That’s the way amigo.
tihtahpah Is self pity and whining the same thing? Most complainers DON’T DO nothing about it.
huei Well, yeah, don’t bring everyone else’s mood down when you’re in a group.
susie_q I was expecting a comment like that, so please read the underlining statement.
Firehorse
Jun 6th, 2007
Moaners are yappers not doers, they complain daily but dun get off their behinds to do anything positive to change their current condition. They may also not be conscious about it and I reli do think this is the oni way they knoe how to get attention.
pelf
Jun 6th, 2007
DANG.
This sounds like me. Perhaps I’m not happy where I am, that’s why I complain too much.
I should make myself happy again. LOL.
Sha
Jun 6th, 2007
A whiney guy deserves to be bashed up more than a whiney girl deserves to get slapped. I really can’t stand whiney guys lol.
Jewelle
Jun 6th, 2007
I dunno, I have friend who is like this, but I guess the best is just to “masuk telinga kanan keluar telinga kiri”, we all have our ways of saying and interpreting things.
Giddy Tiger
Jun 6th, 2007
Can I just whine and complain about my job?
Gallivanter
Jun 6th, 2007
Firehorse Spot on!
pelf You wanna make yourself happy? Come for the blogger booze outing that I’m thinking of organizing in July. Hahaha!
Sha Whiny guys are a pain in the bunshole too.
Jewelle Kiri kanan? That doesn’t sound like being a good friend now does it?
Giddy Tiger Of course, just not whining about the outing while it’s taking place!
Lucifer
Jun 6th, 2007
don’t you just wan’t to kill whiners … life would be much more simpler..but again when whiners ain’t around you also get to miss ragging on them
Gallivanter
Jun 6th, 2007
Lucifer Yes, the thought did cross my mind. I know a couple of whiners, I’ll drag them out when we meet for booze. *evil grin*
sabrina
Jun 7th, 2007
It’s true that a whiner can be a right pain in the arse. But i think a bit of allowance should be given to someone who is goin thru depression…cos they don’t realise that they’re doin it; and sometimes it eases the pain to talk
Gallivanter
Jun 7th, 2007
sabrina Of course, I agree 100%. This entry is a dig at CONSTANT moaners. CONSTANT.
Mo
Jun 7th, 2007
moaners and depress people are very different from each other… believe me I know…
Gallivanter
Jun 7th, 2007
Mo Yes, I agree. I’m talking about eternal whiners…
Ann
Jun 9th, 2007
You are absolutely right. You can actually sense these kinds of people from the look on their faces before they actually open their mouths.
Gallivanter
Jun 9th, 2007
Ann Yeah, makes you wanna hang them out to dry, doesn’t it?