How to Last Longer in Bed?
SharePosted on 27. Sep, 2007 by Gallivanter in Relationship
This is what I normally do. I please her first. I use whatever means necessary – usually the hands, mouth and mini-me, to bring her to orgasm first before taking my turn. Secondly, I let her be on top. The reason? Well, when a woman’s on top of you, your mini-me is less stimulated, and her chances of orgasm is higher.
You’re welcome.
Sha
Sep 27th, 2007
And there you have it boys. Listen to Mr gallivanter.
earthy emily
Sep 27th, 2007
You’re my sex therapist now. Hehe
pucklepickle
Sep 27th, 2007
Do lots of “Senaman HARIMAU”.
ethel
Sep 27th, 2007
Oh.
Mel is one VERY happy woman!
tincho sambora
Sep 27th, 2007
i like that… when a woman’s on top of you…
besides,she makes all the work being there
thanks,dr gallivanter.
huei
Sep 27th, 2007
eh! i was looking forward to a longer one
i mean the post! =P
mystarhill
Sep 27th, 2007
everybody should try it.. but then again.. there got a lot of women. so I don’t think they’ll react the same with the same tactics.
Mo
Sep 27th, 2007
Kopi Jantan Pak Abu Samad… makey lovey long time’
Mo
Sep 27th, 2007
kopi = coffee
Jantan = male
Pak Abu Samad = sum random malay guy’s name i made up
Kavilan
Sep 27th, 2007
dude, why dont u start a talk show bout matters of sex? Become the Malaysian male version of Dr.Ruth…
satkuru
Sep 27th, 2007
interesting entry
i am on the same page as huei, lol.
earl-ku
Sep 27th, 2007
bro but when she is on top she is on control man … basically once she is on top she is in the driving position man …
hahaha
try “gambir sarawak” hehehe
Terence Lai
Sep 27th, 2007
I was looking for a longer post too…….It’s so unlike you to blog so little when you’re experience in this topic … LoL…
Anyway, to last a lil’ longer… try changing positions every now and then.. It helps plus she won’t be the one in driving position all da time.. Have some control, have your say
LC_Teh
Sep 27th, 2007
how to last longer in bed?… wah hahaha…take sleeping pills lah. hahaha… so simple.
Gallivanter
Sep 27th, 2007
Sha LOL. Well, there are days when all you want is a quickie.
earthy emily Yikes, I don’t deserve such honor, it’s still a learning process.
pucklepickle *GROWLS*
ethel Errr, well, not all the time of course.
tincho sambora Oral sex amigo is the key, but it needs to be done emotionally rather than objectively.
huei Well, this is the first step for men, the rest, it all boils down to your partner’s needs and how you adapt.
mystarhill Obviously, but in general, the elements are the same.
Mo You tried it?
Kavilan No la, I’m not at that level yet.
satkuru In time my friend, in time…
earl-ku It doesn’t matter who’s in control when she’s on top, the thing is, your mini-me is the “safest” at that position.
Terence Lai I think I’ve post a few entries similar to this hence I kept it concise. Changing positions do help, it buys you “time”, but the dangerous thing is when you find a position which excites you…then lasting longer will be a problemo.
LC_Teh You mean give your partner sleeping pills? Hmm, that might work.
Alb
Sep 27th, 2007
“please her first” – yes true, this is what we called LADIES FIRST.
“let her be on top-your mini-me is less stimulated” – this one I’m not really sure (personally, I’m not really agree.. hehe). I think this way is the fastest way men to reach orgasm :p
One fact i read about make-love. Man is like driving a Formula 1, speed is counted, that’s why most of the time reach orgasm in 3 minutes :p – and Woman is like driving a Cadillac (or any antique car), the style of driving is important – as Dr John Gray said in his book, MARS AND VENUS IN THE BEDROOM by John Gray (the best sex book i ever had read…so far… hehe)
Wannabe Economist
Sep 27th, 2007
agree, foreplay is important..
cdason
Sep 27th, 2007
good advice bro..
weichuen
Sep 27th, 2007
Aaaa….how to last less longer ah?
tincho sambora
Sep 28th, 2007
:S oral sex…
i dont like fish but…
if dr gallivanter says that. xD
Yvy
Sep 28th, 2007
i’m sure any woman who is on top would feel more in control too…
Gallivanter
Sep 28th, 2007
Alb I like John Gray, but only his first book.
Wannabe Economist OLE! High five amigo!
cdason It’s a start for us men I would say…as long as we’re winning to learn and improve…
weichuen Doggy style.
tincho sambora Well, sometimes you need to sacrifice your nose for greater rewards…
Yvy Definitely, while we men at the bottom can chug a beer while at it. And they say we can’t multi-task! LOL
sara
Nov 2nd, 2007
sometimes girls don’t like to be on top.
Curious
Nov 3rd, 2007
How long can you usually last before spilling it?
Diarmuid
Nov 4th, 2007
I found girl on top quite painful and intense. There is one trick though, just before you ejaculate, pull back your testes gently, and you’ll easily last another 10-15 minutes.
Mind, its been 6 years since I’ve done anything like that, but its like riding a bicycle, ……you never forget.
Men really have three erogenous zones, and I am not telling you where the g-spot is on a man…..you’ll be disgusted if I told you. Meanwhile, women are interesting…..the whole body is an erogenous zone.
Simply put, treat a lady like a kettle, bring to the boil slowly and surely. Men on the other hand, we tend to like it fast and furious. Theres sex, theres shagging and then theres making love. Making love is an art, and I suppose thats why many women prefer slightly older men.
Gallivanter
Nov 5th, 2007
sara Agreed, the key is communicating with your partner to maximize sexual escapades.
Curious Well, it varies based on circumstances. Mel knows. Keep on being curious, we need to get rid of cats of this world.
Diarmuid The first para is spot on. I think it’s all in the mind as well. As for men’s erogenous zone, yup, I know where they are, and thanks for not sharing it here.