Are women more miserable then men in their everyday lives? Most women seem to be implicitly distressed and discontented with their lives. Why are women so miserable and complaining all the time? Are they intrinsically sad? How do you deal with her moodiness?
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November 15th, 2007 at 12:31am
Maybe the reason some women are miserable is because the men in their lives treat them badly. to be treated with kindness puts a smile on everyones face. not a lot to ask is it.
November 15th, 2007 at 2:05am
I guess most women, when they tell you something, it’s not about finding a solution but rather seeking some form of emphathy from men. Maybe, they are created that way.
November 15th, 2007 at 5:30am
Are Women Miserable by Nature ? No, we’re not, and I feel very confident in this one instance, speaking for my entire gender. That does happen often, we’re tremendously diverse – unlike men……………..Kidding (a little).
I think women become miserable when drained by those they like, love and know, w/out being given back what they hand out. Women are typically nurturing and want to help, fix, feed, and take care of those in their lives. The trick is (the best that I have figured out), is to understand how much of yourself you can give freely before you’ll begin to expect it back, and stop there. It’s the expecting it back that will make one miserable. You should be getting it back, but to expect it will ALWAYS leave a person feeling emotionally unfed.
November 15th, 2007 at 11:18am
Shut up and listen, or pretend to be listen…
November 15th, 2007 at 11:35am
yes. they absolutely are.
i’d usually just do what most guys do, shut up and listen and by all means agree with everything they have to say.
November 15th, 2007 at 1:19pm
i think there is no solution for it. after all, we’re from mars and they are from venus and we just happened to meet in the middle.
November 15th, 2007 at 1:49pm
We just express our emotions easier.
November 15th, 2007 at 4:50pm
Not only miserable but also complicated.
November 15th, 2007 at 6:19pm
when guys feel miserable, people might think they lame but not for gurls, this is their exclusive characteristic. so i think when they on their wrong side of the day, better be silent or more scud missile will on to you if anyone know what i mean.
November 15th, 2007 at 10:55pm
Women has the right to have all this.. at least I do think so.
November 15th, 2007 at 11:58pm
You know, I disagree. Women APPEAR disstressed all the time because they let out steam. Little steam, they let out. Most of the men I know (the less extroverted types like you!) tend to push their emotions aside because they think it’s not so important and don’t want to yack yack yak like a woman. So, they bottle things up all the time.
That’s why the number of men who hit depression and end up taking his own life is DOUBLE the number of women. It’s a fact!
November 16th, 2007 at 12:56am
Insecurity is one of the reasons, i guess. But i have to say NOT ALL women are behaving that way though.
November 16th, 2007 at 2:55pm
That is why they are call women! We men have to ‘help’ them in whatever way a men can! Mood will change like wheather at month-end or when she is not ’satisfied’!
Have a nice day!
November 16th, 2007 at 4:37pm
Just listen and be empathy…when we “share” our concerns does not mean we want solutions…sometimes we just want you to lend your ears
November 16th, 2007 at 4:54pm
Nah..no women are miserable by nature (if there are..tell them to go far far away! :p)
whatever the lady says, just try to keep up with her. Most times, she’s not asking for solutions, just a place for her to channel her rantings! Haha..poor guys.. :p
But never let her go overboard, ok?
Thank god Superhero W is a very patient man! Hehe.
November 16th, 2007 at 6:11pm
Aunty J: Oh yes exactly! =)
November 16th, 2007 at 10:31pm
I read this and immediately thought the silly arguement here that I can’t seem to quit watching….
Eleven people were hanging on a rope, under a helicopter. 10 men and
1 woman. The rope was not strong enough to carry them all, so they
decided that oneperson had to leave, because otherwise they were all
going to fall. They weren’t able to choose that person, until the
woman gave a verytouching speech. She said that she would voluntarily
let go of the rope, because, as a woman,she was used to giving up
everything for her husband and kids or for men ingeneral, and was used
to always making sacrifices with little in return. As soon as she
finished her speech, all the men started clapping …….
November 17th, 2007 at 6:07pm
Thank you all for your comments. This entry is just to spur your constructive feedbacks.
November 17th, 2007 at 8:22pm
well be it men…be it women…..xceptions r always thea….some women r strong…….some men are very supportive…who do care to listen wht she has to share….
but yeah….women r generally complicated….lol….kiddin…
@monique
well thea is a sayin in hindi(national language of india)…by lord sri krishna….”karam kar fal ki asha mat kar”…..it apparently seems he is askin ppl to keep on working without expecting nything in return ….n this is interpreted in a wrong manner by some ppl….it actually means wt u said…..to avoid tht mental agony of not meeting the expectations one shud concentrate on work…after all its his duty….n whn he/she gets something in return its like a reward…be it small or big…
November 18th, 2007 at 1:10am
I enjoyed your post, and the conversations that came out of it. I had hoped that my opinions, while real and true, would come across in the snippy but playful manner in which they were intended.
You have a good blog, best wishes to you and your family.
November 18th, 2007 at 1:13am
wish u the same……
January 9th, 2008 at 8:22am
Being a woman, I can definitely say, its an attribute… but there are usually triggers for miserableness. Something is usually going on in that woman’s mind that’s making her exhaust/release steam like trucks do.
See women are usually very happy and fun people to be around when everything is going good with them. On the flip side, once they are: feeling pressured, unhappy about something they are not expressing, overworked with much need for relaxation, and upset about unfair or non-reciprocated treatment; women vent in the form of miserableness. Oh yeah, and there’s also hormones. Just like how steam trucks release exhaust or blow their horns…..women vent loudly & bloggy = miserable