Comments on: Are Women Miserable by Nature? http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/ Mon, 09 Jan 2012 01:49:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: kjoy http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-67411 kjoy Wed, 09 Jan 2008 00:22:33 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-67411 Being a woman, I can definitely say, its an attribute... but there are usually triggers for miserableness. Something is usually going on in that woman's mind that's making her exhaust/release steam like trucks do. See women are usually very happy and fun people to be around when everything is going good with them. On the flip side, once they are: feeling pressured, unhappy about something they are not expressing, overworked with much need for relaxation, and upset about unfair or non-reciprocated treatment; women vent in the form of miserableness. Oh yeah, and there’s also hormones. Just like how steam trucks release exhaust or blow their horns.....women vent loudly & bloggy = miserable Being a woman, I can definitely say, its an attribute… but there are usually triggers for miserableness. Something is usually going on in that woman’s mind that’s making her exhaust/release steam like trucks do.

See women are usually very happy and fun people to be around when everything is going good with them. On the flip side, once they are: feeling pressured, unhappy about something they are not expressing, overworked with much need for relaxation, and upset about unfair or non-reciprocated treatment; women vent in the form of miserableness. Oh yeah, and there’s also hormones. Just like how steam trucks release exhaust or blow their horns…..women vent loudly & bloggy = miserable

]]> By: steam rock fever http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-51858 steam rock fever Sat, 17 Nov 2007 17:13:46 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-51858 wish u the same...... wish u the same……

]]> By: Monique http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-51857 Monique Sat, 17 Nov 2007 17:10:03 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-51857 I enjoyed your post, and the conversations that came out of it. I had hoped that my opinions, while real and true, would come across in the snippy but playful manner in which they were intended. You have a good blog, best wishes to you and your family. I enjoyed your post, and the conversations that came out of it. I had hoped that my opinions, while real and true, would come across in the snippy but playful manner in which they were intended.

You have a good blog, best wishes to you and your family.

]]> By: steam rock fever http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-51777 steam rock fever Sat, 17 Nov 2007 12:22:43 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-51777 well be it men...be it women.....xceptions r always thea....some women r strong.......some men are very supportive...who do care to listen wht she has to share.... but yeah....women r generally complicated....lol....kiddin... @monique well thea is a sayin in hindi(national language of india)...by lord sri krishna...."karam kar fal ki asha mat kar".....it apparently seems he is askin ppl to keep on working without expecting nything in return ....n this is interpreted in a wrong manner by some ppl....it actually means wt u said.....to avoid tht mental agony of not meeting the expectations one shud concentrate on work...after all its his duty....n whn he/she gets something in return its like a reward...be it small or big... well be it men…be it women…..xceptions r always thea….some women r strong…….some men are very supportive…who do care to listen wht she has to share….

but yeah….women r generally complicated….lol….kiddin…

@monique

well thea is a sayin in hindi(national language of india)…by lord sri krishna….”karam kar fal ki asha mat kar”…..it apparently seems he is askin ppl to keep on working without expecting nything in return ….n this is interpreted in a wrong manner by some ppl….it actually means wt u said…..to avoid tht mental agony of not meeting the expectations one shud concentrate on work…after all its his duty….n whn he/she gets something in return its like a reward…be it small or big…

]]> By: Gallivanter http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-51729 Gallivanter Sat, 17 Nov 2007 10:07:52 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-51729 Thank you all for your comments. This entry is just to spur your constructive feedbacks. :-) Thank you all for your comments. This entry is just to spur your constructive feedbacks. :-)

]]> By: Monique http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-51349 Monique Fri, 16 Nov 2007 14:31:42 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-51349 I read this and immediately thought the silly arguement here that I can't seem to quit watching.... Eleven people were hanging on a rope, under a helicopter. 10 men and 1 woman. The rope was not strong enough to carry them all, so they decided that oneperson had to leave, because otherwise they were all going to fall. They weren't able to choose that person, until the woman gave a verytouching speech. She said that she would voluntarily let go of the rope, because, as a woman,she was used to giving up everything for her husband and kids or for men ingeneral, and was used to always making sacrifices with little in return. As soon as she finished her speech, all the men started clapping ....... I read this and immediately thought the silly arguement here that I can’t seem to quit watching….

Eleven people were hanging on a rope, under a helicopter. 10 men and
1 woman. The rope was not strong enough to carry them all, so they
decided that oneperson had to leave, because otherwise they were all
going to fall. They weren’t able to choose that person, until the
woman gave a verytouching speech. She said that she would voluntarily
let go of the rope, because, as a woman,she was used to giving up
everything for her husband and kids or for men ingeneral, and was used
to always making sacrifices with little in return. As soon as she
finished her speech, all the men started clapping …….

]]> By: Flo http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-51244 Flo Fri, 16 Nov 2007 10:11:13 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-51244 Aunty J: Oh yes exactly! =) Aunty J: Oh yes exactly! =)

]]> By: twosuperheroes http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-51212 twosuperheroes Fri, 16 Nov 2007 08:54:44 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-51212 Nah..no women are miserable by nature (if there are..tell them to go far far away! :p) whatever the lady says, just try to keep up with her. Most times, she's not asking for solutions, just a place for her to channel her rantings! Haha..poor guys.. :p But never let her go overboard, ok? Thank god Superhero W is a very patient man! Hehe. Nah..no women are miserable by nature (if there are..tell them to go far far away! :p)
whatever the lady says, just try to keep up with her. Most times, she’s not asking for solutions, just a place for her to channel her rantings! Haha..poor guys.. :p
But never let her go overboard, ok?
Thank god Superhero W is a very patient man! Hehe.

]]> By: Aunty J http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-51207 Aunty J Fri, 16 Nov 2007 08:37:09 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-51207 Just listen and be empathy...when we "share" our concerns does not mean we want solutions...sometimes we just want you to lend your ears :) Just listen and be empathy…when we “share” our concerns does not mean we want solutions…sometimes we just want you to lend your ears :)

]]> By: HORNY ANG MOH http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-51177 HORNY ANG MOH Fri, 16 Nov 2007 06:55:27 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-51177 That is why they are call women! We men have to 'help' them in whatever way a men can! Mood will change like wheather at month-end or when she is not 'satisfied'! Have a nice day! That is why they are call women! We men have to ‘help’ them in whatever way a men can! Mood will change like wheather at month-end or when she is not ‘satisfied’!
Have a nice day!

]]> By: Flo http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50872 Flo Thu, 15 Nov 2007 16:56:51 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50872 Insecurity is one of the reasons, i guess. But i have to say NOT ALL women are behaving that way though. Insecurity is one of the reasons, i guess. But i have to say NOT ALL women are behaving that way though.

]]> By: marsha http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50855 marsha Thu, 15 Nov 2007 15:58:35 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50855 You know, I disagree. Women APPEAR disstressed all the time because they let out steam. Little steam, they let out. Most of the men I know (the less extroverted types like you!) tend to push their emotions aside because they think it's not so important and don't want to yack yack yak like a woman. So, they bottle things up all the time. That's why the number of men who hit depression and end up taking his own life is DOUBLE the number of women. It's a fact! :-) You know, I disagree. Women APPEAR disstressed all the time because they let out steam. Little steam, they let out. Most of the men I know (the less extroverted types like you!) tend to push their emotions aside because they think it’s not so important and don’t want to yack yack yak like a woman. So, they bottle things up all the time.

That’s why the number of men who hit depression and end up taking his own life is DOUBLE the number of women. It’s a fact!

:-)

]]> By: ceara http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50828 ceara Thu, 15 Nov 2007 14:55:26 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50828 Women has the right to have all this.. at least I do think so. Women has the right to have all this.. at least I do think so.

]]> By: jefferi http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50737 jefferi Thu, 15 Nov 2007 10:19:06 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50737 when guys feel miserable, people might think they lame but not for gurls, this is their exclusive characteristic. so i think when they on their wrong side of the day, better be silent or more scud missile will on to you if anyone know what i mean. :D when guys feel miserable, people might think they lame but not for gurls, this is their exclusive characteristic. so i think when they on their wrong side of the day, better be silent or more scud missile will on to you if anyone know what i mean. :D

]]> By: Kenny Ng http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50703 Kenny Ng Thu, 15 Nov 2007 08:50:36 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50703 Not only miserable but also complicated. Not only miserable but also complicated.

]]> By: Jewelle http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50641 Jewelle Thu, 15 Nov 2007 05:49:44 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50641 We just express our emotions easier. We just express our emotions easier.

]]> By: zewt http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50634 zewt Thu, 15 Nov 2007 05:19:01 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50634 i think there is no solution for it. after all, we're from mars and they are from venus and we just happened to meet in the middle. i think there is no solution for it. after all, we’re from mars and they are from venus and we just happened to meet in the middle.

]]> By: sewjin http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50584 sewjin Thu, 15 Nov 2007 03:35:17 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50584 yes. they absolutely are. i'd usually just do what most guys do, shut up and listen and by all means agree with everything they have to say. yes. they absolutely are.

i’d usually just do what most guys do, shut up and listen and by all means agree with everything they have to say.

]]> By: wong http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50575 wong Thu, 15 Nov 2007 03:18:27 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50575 Shut up and listen, or pretend to be listen... Shut up and listen, or pretend to be listen…

]]> By: Monique http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/gender/are-women-miserable-by-nature/comment-page-1/#comment-50428 Monique Wed, 14 Nov 2007 21:30:18 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/11/15/are-women-miserable-by-nature/#comment-50428 Are Women Miserable by Nature ? No, we're not, and I feel very confident in this one instance, speaking for my entire gender. That does happen often, we're tremendously diverse - unlike men.................Kidding (a little). I think women become miserable when drained by those they like, love and know, w/out being given back what they hand out. Women are typically nurturing and want to help, fix, feed, and take care of those in their lives. The trick is (the best that I have figured out), is to understand how much of yourself you can give freely before you'll begin to expect it back, and stop there. It's the expecting it back that will make one miserable. You should be getting it back, but to expect it will ALWAYS leave a person feeling emotionally unfed. Are Women Miserable by Nature ? No, we’re not, and I feel very confident in this one instance, speaking for my entire gender. That does happen often, we’re tremendously diverse – unlike men……………..Kidding (a little).

I think women become miserable when drained by those they like, love and know, w/out being given back what they hand out. Women are typically nurturing and want to help, fix, feed, and take care of those in their lives. The trick is (the best that I have figured out), is to understand how much of yourself you can give freely before you’ll begin to expect it back, and stop there. It’s the expecting it back that will make one miserable. You should be getting it back, but to expect it will ALWAYS leave a person feeling emotionally unfed.

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