Relationship Observations
SharePosted on 14. Mar, 2008 by Gallivanter in Relationship
You will probably not know your soulmate right away.
Relationships rarely look like romantic movies or books.
It takes years to really get to know someone.
Great relationships are completely worth the effort.
In spite of lots of bad relationships, a great relationship is possible.
A relationship is like a living being – it needs love, caring, space, etc.
You don’t have to do your relationships the way your parents did theirs.
You can only have a great relationship when you don’t need one.



Moses Francis
Mar 14th, 2008
That my friend is so so true!.
Gallivanter
Mar 15th, 2008
Moses Francis Yes, a reminder to some of us to put high expectations in our relationships.
tihtahpah
Mar 15th, 2008
do away with great expectations i think….and rigidity….and the need to conform with the idea of the normal route in a relationship- date,sex,marriage, babies, grandkids. Having someone is different as opposed to grabbing someone convenient to marry and have kids with, jsut for the sake of that. i know too many who fall into this category unfortunately…
Gallivanter
Mar 15th, 2008
tihtahpah Yes, and it’s a sad predicament – but you’re right, it seems to be pandemic.
marsha
Mar 15th, 2008
whether it’s with a life partner or with a life-long friend, a relationship needs to go both ways. when it’s one way, it’s time to hit the road and find another destination. maintaining a relationship is hard work….couldn’t agree with you more.
Gallivanter
Mar 16th, 2008
marsha Spot on! It takes two to bongo!