Some women love giving it, and some despise the thought of it. The same can be said for men and the process of cunnilingus. If she doesn’t want seminal fluid in her mouth, make sure you don’t blow up on her! Pull “John Thomas” away when you’re nearing the stage of explosion.
Some women fear that they might choke when they “choking the chicken” with their mouth. What you can do is keep still and don’t lambada her, thinking her head is her coconut, while she’s getting down on you. Let her work at her own pace.
Sometimes, she’s just not in the mood to do it, don’t force her. She’ll blow your brains out when she’s ready. Just keep on stimulating her. She may have a fear of being labeled too, as society may have shaped her believe that giving head is unholy, let her make her own decisions in time. You can help by speaking to her about it openly and honestly.
What she gets, she gives back, so make sure you get down on her if you expect her to do the same on you, else she’ll lose interest over time. It takes 2 to tango the bongo, and always remember - HYGIENE is crucial!
If she had endured a trauma from blowjobs, you might feel the backlash. I had an traumatic experience some 10 years ago when I was about to get down, I smelt a dead fish, emanating from her. I was traumatized for 2 years. What I’m saying is, a woman may have had a bad experience too. Speak to her.
In the end , not everyone is into oral sex, if she doesn’t like it at all, and if you feel its a vital ingredient for a relationship (intimacy), then end it if you’re unable to reach compromise.
A Year Ago
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April 16th, 2008 at 9:49am
hahaha… i am not agreeing to what you said, it takes 2 to tango. i mean.. what if i like to give but dont like to receivE? err,, or is it just me?
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April 16th, 2008 at 9:50am
lol!! john thomas!! first time im hearing it…lol lol
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April 16th, 2008 at 10:59am
there are more men who care about girls getting down on them than men who give 50-50 wan. I think it’s society, you think? but that could have been my luck, I suppose. and it’s NOT hygiene issue. had a traumatic experience in the past too and endured it for close to four years without speaking up about it. terror (or stupid) or not? LOL
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April 16th, 2008 at 1:03pm
Someone pass me the Listerine.
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April 16th, 2008 at 7:42pm
Sharon Errr, I’ve never seen that kind of women before….but if there is one out there who doesn’t like receiving oral sex, blimey - this world is coming to an end!
sri Oh yes, it’s true. Til today, I always laughed at dudes named John Thomas. Their parents really had some sense of humor. Hehehehe!
marsha 4 years? But if it’s not hygiene issue, then it must’ve been some sizing problems. LOL.
Wombat I don’t think Listerine would’ve helped, best solution is to set tongue on fire.
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April 17th, 2008 at 9:07am
marsha “there are more men who care about girls getting down on them than men who give 50-50 wan”
totally agree. not all msian men care about whether the girl is satisfied or not. so men who care are keepers!!! hahaa, at least 50points up!
i think mood is important, so it the environment. hygiene as well……
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April 17th, 2008 at 9:05pm
tihtahpah Hygiene is first and foremost. And oral sex is all about give and take.
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April 20th, 2008 at 12:49pm
errrr…
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April 20th, 2008 at 9:14pm
ezooone It’s truth and nothing but the truth.
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April 21st, 2008 at 7:47pm
firstly, let me apologize for what i am about to say… i just CANNOT believe no1 has said it yet…
sharon… do drop me an email… i’d like to discuss your comments further…
=D
*hahahhahhahahhahahhahahhahha!!!!!!!!!!!*
p.s. pls tell me u have a sense of humor…
p.s.2 i am a firm believer of “GIVE AND THOU SHALL RECEIVE!!”
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April 22nd, 2008 at 10:02pm
vickna LOL. I should start charging for “matchmaking” services.
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