Couples out there, if you’re not communicating your sexual needs to each other, I suggest you do so for the good of the relationship. Sure, a relationship is not all about sex, but sex is very much part of a relationship. So stop living in denial.
You may not want to hurt your lover’s feelings, because you feel that if you were in their shoes, you may feel the same. Bollocks! Hurtful perhaps, but it’s the truth, it will help the relationship.
Don’t feel shy to ask what you want, hey, sex is all about enjoyment and fulfillment, but try not to overstep human boundaries here. Don’t be a sadist, else go tie your balls with a PAS flag.
You may think that you know EXACTLY what your partner wants, but that is not reality. Don’t assume that because you like it, she likes it too. Assumptions are the mother of all screwup, just ask Malaysia’s Barisan Nasional (National Front).
Sometimes, you may feel that you don’t deserve such kickass experience, but dude, it’s all about taking and receiving. Don’t worry about ruining the mood, as it may already be ruined if your partner or yourself is not getting the maximum.
Spontaneity only happens in movies, don’t think sometimes it just happens. Work at it or you’ll most likely to spend more time with your hands.
Just let go of your expectations and start expressing yourself. Hey, you deserve it and your partner wants to please you as much as you want to please her.
A Year Ago
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