How many times that you’ve come across a situation, when you thought things are going well with this girl, that you feel there is potential girlfriend material in her, and suddenly if peters out? While you were planning on your next move, she waited and waited and then left. Have you kept the momentum of pursuit?
Pauses in communication ravages the courtship process, so be sure to let her know that you’re thinking about her, to keep yourself in the game. Even text messages will do, as it is less intrusive than phone calls - if you’re not ready.
Confidence is key, and so is being decisive. So, always be sure of yourself, and that you’re sure of your feelings for her. If you hugged her on the last date, work the courage to kissing her on the next, keep the heat up.
Women are better than us in picking up gestural cues. Hence, you need to give some signal that you find her attractive as it is crucial. Let her catch you checking her out throughout the date, but don’t be a creep and focus your eyes on her boobies.
One more thing, don’t overdo it. It’s never a good idea to consistently bombard her with phone calls and e-mails. She needs to know that you HAVE a life outside of her. Show her that you’re someone she just can’t afford to pass.
A Year Ago
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Tags: attractive, communication, confidence, courage, courtship, date, decisive, gestural cues, girlfriend, momentum of pursuit, potential, pursuit, signal, thinking, women
May 13th, 2008 at 7:26pm
Great!!
Very profound text. I’m a big fan of this conscious relationship and gender stuff. And what makes it much interesting is… it is to be taught by guys like you! I adore u.
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May 14th, 2008 at 9:38am
Ahhhh, waste of time. Just go over and say “wanna f**k?” You have a 50-50 chance of success.
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May 15th, 2008 at 3:13am
Snark, not every girl is fuckable. Haha.
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May 15th, 2008 at 9:20pm
sri Well, it’s a lifelong learning process.
The Snark You’re back!
Yes, 50-50 chance of being slapped too. Which part of Malaysia can you get away with that? Kelantan? 
Flo Actually, theoretically every girl is fuckable, that’s why you have holes. The question is, do they wanna be bonked without the need of having deep and thoughtful conversations first.
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May 15th, 2008 at 11:04pm
“theoretically every girl is fuckable, that’s why you have holes”
Wow, didn’t see that coming…
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May 16th, 2008 at 11:03pm
Monique Really?
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May 16th, 2008 at 11:44pm
No I didn’t, you caught me off guard first thing in the morning…
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May 17th, 2008 at 12:53pm
ok..this post is cool..actually..even the comments are cool..haha..
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May 19th, 2008 at 1:07pm
Xander
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