So, what attracts us to women? Independent chick, homely housewife or a sex kitten? Well, the combination of the 3 of course. You thought we were THAT easy to figure out? Of course, sex kitten is vital. Hehe!
But seriously, we want someone FUN. Why? Because we love to tease and be playful with our girlfriends, and if you’re a sulky potato all the time, you’re better off making out with a llama.
Also, please have an opinion, don’t just rely on us to do all the creative thinking. I mean, yes, we are intelligent, though you feminists would not admit it. I’m gonna flame the fire by saying that the only thing a woman is good at is to give birth. Everything else, men win. So, don’t just give in, when we ask, what do you wanna do, don’t say “I don’t know”. DECIDE.
What we love is a healthy debate, not an emotionally charged one like most women love getting themselves into. Challenge us, as we don’t want to end up like Homer Simpson And please don’t get personal. Of course, there are some things that cannot be debated. We know.
Forget about us lending you a shoulder to cry on, you’ll have better luck with your mom, or female friend, or some gay fella in some slum in KL. We will try to solve your problem, and we’ll suggest solutions too.
One thing men hate is when a woman tries to stop us from hanging out with our friends from time to time. Do we stop you? Please, live your life with your friends, and let us take a breather every now and again.
The most important thing - women, don’t pretend to be someone else, even during the dating phase. Just be yourself. Kapish?
A Year Ago
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May 23rd, 2008 at 8:15am
hear hear!
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May 23rd, 2008 at 9:15am
Yes yes, sex kitten is important
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May 23rd, 2008 at 12:16pm
‘a lady on the street but a freak in da bed’-that’s my type..
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May 23rd, 2008 at 12:56pm
Yes, We give solutions, but they want affections, but a couple of books might help in this kinda thing, try Allan Pease’s “Why Men Don’t bother and women can’t read maps” or “Why men don’t have a clue and woman always need more shoes” Theyre good in answering all these questions =)
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May 23rd, 2008 at 8:30pm
tihtahpah
nicktay Of course.
patrick OK, freak can come in many shapes and sizes - hopefully you’re not talking about the S&M types.
Wannabe Economist Yes, they do want affection, but sometimes, they need to take it straight up.
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May 27th, 2008 at 11:17am
You are that easy to figure out.
It only requires a penis, sperm, testosterone and few brain cells to WANT all 3, but few men are actually strong enough in themselves to handle all 3.
“the only thing a woman is good at is to give birth. Everything else, men win”……. You think this is only offensive to feminists? LOL
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May 27th, 2008 at 9:24pm
Monique I take that part back, I wrote that out of anger and got carried away. I was upset at that time. To all women folks, I sincerely apologize for that as it was uncalled for.
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May 28th, 2008 at 10:59am
On behalf of my gender - apology accepted.
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May 30th, 2008 at 7:40pm
Lucky you apologize before I wrote something to prove you wrong! har,har,har,har…
I am confused. I think your post entry it should correctly read “Give Men Some Space To Breath & When Asked Get To The Point” LoL…
The last part I agree, lucky I am likeable for showing off my true colours instead of being like some women do “the plastics” (if you’ve watch Mean Girls, you’ll know what I mean).
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June 1st, 2008 at 10:36pm
Monique Thank you.
Olie Yeah, being yourself is extremely important.
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