The Pursuit of Women
SharePosted on 13. May, 2008 by Gallivanter in Relationship
How many times that you’ve come across a situation, when you thought things are going well with this girl, that you feel there is potential girlfriend material in her, and suddenly if peters out? While you were planning on your next move, she waited and waited and then left. Have you kept the momentum of pursuit?
Pauses in communication ravages the courtship process, so be sure to let her know that you’re thinking about her, to keep yourself in the game. Even text messages will do, as it is less intrusive than phone calls – if you’re not ready.
Confidence is key, and so is being decisive. So, always be sure of yourself, and that you’re sure of your feelings for her. If you hugged her on the last date, work the courage to kissing her on the next, keep the heat up.
Women are better than us in picking up gestural cues. Hence, you need to give some signal that you find her attractive as it is crucial. Let her catch you checking her out throughout the date, but don’t be a creep and focus your eyes on her boobies.
One more thing, don’t overdo it. It’s never a good idea to consistently bombard her with phone calls and e-mails. She needs to know that you HAVE a life outside of her. Show her that you’re someone she just can’t afford to pass.
sri
May 13th, 2008
Great!!
Very profound text. I’m a big fan of this conscious relationship and gender stuff. And what makes it much interesting is… it is to be taught by guys like you! I adore u.
The Snark
May 14th, 2008
Ahhhh, waste of time. Just go over and say “wanna f**k?” You have a 50-50 chance of success.
Flo
May 15th, 2008
Snark, not every girl is fuckable. Haha.
Gallivanter
May 15th, 2008
sri Well, it’s a lifelong learning process.
The Snark You’re back!
Yes, 50-50 chance of being slapped too. Which part of Malaysia can you get away with that? Kelantan? 
Flo Actually, theoretically every girl is fuckable, that’s why you have holes. The question is, do they wanna be bonked without the need of having deep and thoughtful conversations first.
Monique
May 15th, 2008
“theoretically every girl is fuckable, that’s why you have holes”
Wow, didn’t see that coming…
Gallivanter
May 16th, 2008
Monique Really?
Monique
May 16th, 2008
No I didn’t, you caught me off guard first thing in the morning…
Xander
May 17th, 2008
ok..this post is cool..actually..even the comments are cool..haha..
Gallivanter
May 19th, 2008
Xander
Olie
Jan 9th, 2009
Fark! I missed this post too!!!??? #$%^&*()
Have I been that busy ka? Aiyo!
kewl comments! hmmm… I’d rather have deep conversations and thoughts first… the fuck can wait! ha,ha,ha,ha…
But I surely wouldn’t mind a guy bombarding me with phones calls. I love the attention as it makes me feel wanted ;-p
Provided I am not busy la.. if not.. aiiiii!!
Olie’s last blog post..It’s Over – Jesse McCartney
Olie
Jan 9th, 2009
aahh.. no wonder I missed this post.. I was down in KL for a month… didn’t have time to check out anybody’s latest posts during that month. *sigh*
Olie’s last blog post..It’s Over – Jesse McCartney