So, you managed to get her number. High five. Do you know what to say to her when you call? The first call is crucial as you need to know what to talk, because, if it’s uninteresting, she’ll find an excuse to end it. However, it works both ways, if you tried your best to keep the conversation going, and she’s not, then you end the call.
Don’t get into that awkward silence, as first impression is important because if you suck then you will be ignored by her. Also, don’t answer her questions too early, because she’s actually building a trap to see how good you are with the fairer sex. In other words, don’t let yourself look like an open book, and don’t answer all her questions, dominate the conversation to keep the mystery going.
Another important fact is to keep it short, no matter how interesting it is. I always do that, my first call is almost always under 10 minutes. You should end the call before she does. Remember, make sure you’re in control.
A Year Ago
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June 3rd, 2008 at 11:00am
seems like this can be use in both gender.. should change the title to “how to talk to him/her over the phone”.. hee.. quite tricky actually.. haha..
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June 5th, 2008 at 11:33am
“don’t answer her questions too early, because she’s actually building a trap to see how good you are with the fairer sex”
Didn’t you write that you in fact “interview” potential dates? So why then is it wrong for her to ask the same questions when it suits her?
“Remember, make sure you’re in control.”
Wow, ok…. Whatever, I can’t even go into it right now…. This caught me in a far too bitchy mood to allow myself to sink much deeper into the thoughts it stirs. I will simply say that, dear Daniel, control is an illusion. Don’t spend too much time and energy developing it or banking on it. Seriously.
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June 5th, 2008 at 6:38pm
hf Good point.
Monique Sorry, but control is NOT illusion.
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June 6th, 2008 at 4:50am
Spoken like someone who think he has it….
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June 7th, 2008 at 2:28am
well have you ever considered that when a girl aren’t showing much interest in a conversation (over the phone) is because you caught her in a bad timing or bad situation? I’ve had that before.. . in which I can’t really talk like how I used to talk to him… at the same time I don’t want him to know what I am doing…
which got him upset.. coz he didn’t know…
in the end after I’m done with whatever I am doing.. I have to call back and explain the whole situation and *phew* we talked like we used to.. nonstop..
indeed men really know how to end a conversation no matter how interesting the topic and how it has gotten to.. shish.. just when we females are getting there you want to end the conversation! *piak* *piak* you male you… ha,ha,ha,ha,ha…
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June 8th, 2008 at 9:53pm
Olie That could well happen too, but if you happen to get her at the wrong time whenever you call, either you’re bad luck or she’s avoiding you.
Sometimes, ending the conversation is good, although it’s on an interesting topic, it leaves room for more conversations in the future, and of course, it’s in line with the art of teasing. 
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June 8th, 2008 at 10:05pm
Well as a girl… If I am avoiding a guy, I would definitely NOT answer whenever this particular guy calls or reply his smses.. a waste of time.
If she can’t talk or she’s not participating in the conversation, she definitely is doing something else or can’t talk freely.
I’ve had that alot of times.. like painting my toenails and answer a call but just listen and say ‘Ahuh. Ahuh. Oh… Yes… No.. Ahuh.”
LOL! I’ll just say.. its bad luck… if a girl is avoiding you.. she won’t even bother to pickup the phone.. ;-b
The second part is indeed so true! ha,ha,ha… *piak* you male you again and again… ha,ha,ha…
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