Comments on: What to Do When She Loses Her Attraction http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/relationship/what-to-do-when-she-loses-her-attraction/ Mon, 09 Jan 2012 01:49:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Gallivanter http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/relationship/what-to-do-when-she-loses-her-attraction/comment-page-1/#comment-83065 Gallivanter Sun, 08 Jun 2008 13:52:13 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/?p=2740#comment-83065 <i>Monique</i> OK, if it floats your boat. <i>zewt</i> No la, just sharing my experience, of course, I may not be 100% accurate. :-) <i>Olie</i> :-) Monique OK, if it floats your boat.

zewt No la, just sharing my experience, of course, I may not be 100% accurate. :-)

Olie :-)

]]> By: Olie http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/relationship/what-to-do-when-she-loses-her-attraction/comment-page-1/#comment-82791 Olie Fri, 06 Jun 2008 18:21:15 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/?p=2740#comment-82791 ha,ha,ha,ha... its kinda funny when I read this.. so this is the story to the few days silence (which felt like AGES!)... but when he cut communication, it wasn't because he felt like he was taken for granted.. actually he was blardy busy meeting clients and stuck with datelines... ;-b really really.. lol.. finally when he called, you know what the first word he asked me? He laughed sheepishly and said "Why? You got scared adi ah?" and he continued laughing... haih... lucky on the phone if not I would've break his neck for making me wonder, ponder, contemplating! ha,ha,ha.. healthy jealousy does work... but in the end he's the one who got scared.... he said "I liked this song coz it really reminds me of this one girl" then I answered "ok, but then don't tell me about it if its about that one girl coz I don't wanna know..." I haven't finished talking and he quickly cut my conversation by saying "and the girl is YOU!" LOL..... cute huh! ha,ha,ha,ha… its kinda funny when I read this.. so this is the story to the few days silence (which felt like AGES!)…
but when he cut communication, it wasn’t because he felt like he was taken for granted.. actually he was blardy busy meeting clients and stuck with datelines… ;-b really really..

lol.. finally when he called, you know what the first word he asked me? He laughed sheepishly and said “Why? You got scared adi ah?” and he continued laughing…
haih… lucky on the phone if not I would’ve break his neck for making me wonder, ponder, contemplating! ha,ha,ha..
healthy jealousy does work… but in the end he’s the one who got scared….
he said “I liked this song coz it really reminds me of this one girl”
then I answered “ok, but then don’t tell me about it if its about that one girl coz I don’t wanna know…” I haven’t finished talking and he quickly cut my conversation by saying “and the girl is YOU!”
LOL….. cute huh!

]]> By: zewt http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/relationship/what-to-do-when-she-loses-her-attraction/comment-page-1/#comment-82664 zewt Fri, 06 Jun 2008 02:44:31 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/?p=2740#comment-82664 love guru again huh... :) love guru again huh… :)

]]> By: Monique http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/relationship/what-to-do-when-she-loses-her-attraction/comment-page-1/#comment-82578 Monique Thu, 05 Jun 2008 20:26:50 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/?p=2740#comment-82578 I don't give a shit about being politically correct. I just don't think you're promoting healthy relationships by suggesting jealousy be used as a tool for gaining someones attention/affection. In my personal experience (not trying to judge anyone here), the people who respond to jealousy aren't the most stable emotionally. It just doesn't make sense to me to hang onto someone who a) isn't showing the eagerness to be w/ me anyway and then b) jumps at me when they think my interest is somewhere else. All I was saying. I don’t give a shit about being politically correct.

I just don’t think you’re promoting healthy relationships by suggesting jealousy be used as a tool for gaining someones attention/affection.

In my personal experience (not trying to judge anyone here), the people who respond to jealousy aren’t the most stable emotionally. It just doesn’t make sense to me to hang onto someone who a) isn’t showing the eagerness to be w/ me anyway and then b) jumps at me when they think my interest is somewhere else.

All I was saying.

]]> By: Gallivanter http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/relationship/what-to-do-when-she-loses-her-attraction/comment-page-1/#comment-82461 Gallivanter Thu, 05 Jun 2008 10:37:39 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/?p=2740#comment-82461 <i>Monique</i> Hey, jealousy works, stop trying to be politically correct. My argument is that a little jealousy work, you can do research and there will be proof - it's a fact. I'm not sure on what extent of jealousy that you think it is, I didn't mean doing it at extreme levels. Maybe I should've re-coined a new term - healthy jealousy. :-P Monique Hey, jealousy works, stop trying to be politically correct. My argument is that a little jealousy work, you can do research and there will be proof – it’s a fact. I’m not sure on what extent of jealousy that you think it is, I didn’t mean doing it at extreme levels. Maybe I should’ve re-coined a new term – healthy jealousy. :-P

]]> By: Monique http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/relationship/what-to-do-when-she-loses-her-attraction/comment-page-1/#comment-82402 Monique Thu, 05 Jun 2008 03:25:48 +0000 http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/?p=2740#comment-82402 "The best way to get her attention again, is to make her jealous." That's <i>really</i> mature... Why can't you simply have a conversation about her seeming distant, even saying that she should act like she wants you or it's going to go downhill. Much more effective. Or are you afraid you'll lose that bad boy mystique? Playing w/ people's insecurities for attention is very junior high. “The best way to get her attention again, is to make her jealous.”

That’s really mature…

Why can’t you simply have a conversation about her seeming distant, even saying that she should act like she wants you or it’s going to go downhill. Much more effective. Or are you afraid you’ll lose that bad boy mystique?

Playing w/ people’s insecurities for attention is very junior high.

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