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Why Hasn’t She Replied to Your Text and Calls?

Posted on 25. Jul, 2008 by Gallivanter in Gender

You’ve been exchanging text messages, you went out with her, had a good time, and when you sent a follow up text message, you don’t get a response. Then you follow it up with another text a couple of days later, and still no reply.

You then start to think whether you did anything wrong, and that you thought both of you had a great time and that she liked you. So, you start driving yourself crazy wondering if there was anything that you could have done differently. You start to recap events.

You recap your date with her, and then start to question your moves. Sound familiar? Well, there is nothing that you can do now. Stop living in regret.

Remember, you had some share of ignoring SMSes too. You went out with them, but then you never called back nor replied to her text messages. It works both ways. So, stop being so upset about that person, just realize that there was no chemistry in the first place that you though you had. Move on!

Think about all the girls you dated once, you went out, didn’t like them and you didn’t bother keeping in touch. Don’t worry, if she does not text you back, it’s not the end of the world, don’t drive yourself crazy.

You will never know why someone decides not to like you. You have just got to learn that is part and parcel of dating.

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