Comments on: Don’t Have Sex too Soon with a Guy

By: Ragubalan

Ragubalan — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 16:47:11 +0000

when i was going out with this certain girl, i didnt even think about all tat. cuz i really liked her. maybe one or two quick moments. haha. i was more interested in getting to see her and spending time to get to know her. so ladies, if a guy really genuinely likes u, he will definitely wait for u. if not, then u know lahh..

By: Flo

Flo — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 10:58:46 +0000

u think how many guys can wait for 2 years btw? =)

By: Flo

Flo — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 10:57:28 +0000

i gave in only after 2 years. and that was crazy baby!! =p

By: sLiMGooDiE ♥

sLiMGooDiE ♥ — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 02:42:02 +0000

I agree – if a woman wants a relationship or the possibility if one – she should wait – even though it’s really hard to make the guy you’re dating wait because they run guilt on us and imply that they won’t want to see us anymore etc etc. They make us worry and second guess ourselves but It’s all bs. If he doesn’t want to see you just because you won’t sleep with him fast it’s time to jet he’s not that into you as they say.

My question is when you finally do sleep with the guy, what makes him still interested? I’m always afraid he’ll lose interest after I sleep with him based on what ppl always say – that guys are more into the challenge than anything that comes afterwards – but then he doesn’t lose interest so what’s that about? What really keeps a guys interest after the initial phase of a relationship – and after you’ve slept with him many times already? Could it be (gasp) that he really likes/loves you? :O

By: narrowband

narrowband — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 12:15:32 +0000

This is a good piece! Ladies of the world should read this.

By: Gallivanter

Gallivanter — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 11:48:10 +0000

marsha – True true, those kind of women, as long as they have their head in the right place (excuse the pun), they won’t get hurt (again, excuse the pun)

By: marsha

marsha — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 14:34:30 +0000

whoa! and this coming from a guy? whoa….. but it’s true altho you have to discount the fact that there are some lustful women out there who think vice versa….as in ‘this guys can give me a good time. let’s make him think I am cheap and then tomorrow, end of story’. Met them before, trust me. (I am not one, tho)

By: Gallivanter

Gallivanter — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 11:41:37 +0000

Olie – That’s how women get hurt, and then go on a crusade against men. I’ve been saying this many times already, don’t blame men, blame God for giving men enough blood to run either the brain or the tontolou at a single time!

Ratu Syura – Great point.

clement – If you see it from another angle, I’m actually helping my own kind.

kaDusMama – Correcto, unless the woman is 100% sure it’s only physical, which is highly unlikely unfortunately.

By: kaDusMama

kaDusMama — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 06:27:40 +0000

BETULLL!!!!! I agree 100% on this..
gal shouldn’t sleep with a guy she barely knows..
Not worth to be called cheap lah..

By: clement

clement — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 13:42:51 +0000

dude.. you betray your own kind~ ha ha

By: Ratu Syura

Ratu Syura — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 06:24:09 +0000

in total agreement! ladies, unless you’re a willing participant, please just wait. not only are u gonna be labeled as easy, you’re also gonna have personal issues with rejection. i’ve seen it in lotsa girls and in the end they just cant seem to find a relationship cuz they’re just too negative.

By: Olie

Olie — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 02:03:38 +0000

Dan yeah.. that’s the mistakes women do all the time…
Mel… kesian us women kan.. women give sex for love.. men give love for sex. LoLs…

By: Gallivanter

Gallivanter — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 11:29:55 +0000

Faiez – Well, I’m passed the age of casual sex and ready and willing and able to live with only one person in my life. My left hand, oops, I mean Mel. Hahahaha!

Fei – Woof!

Olie – Some women rush because they think that having sex with the guy is a sign of a relationship blossoming, and that means it is a sign of committing. For the guy, it’s all about sex. Women tend to overcomplicate themselves at times. LOL.

Nick Phillips – Uh oh. Tell ‘em I’m a pastor, and you can’t hurt pastors, against religion. And also, I’m strapped with dynamites!

Anu – Cool.

emelda – Spot on. Most women tend to put their heart in it, when all the men are committing are their privates! LOL.

By: emelda

emelda — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 08:30:14 +0000

Faiez- Masalah dia, not all woman can take thhe “i just wanna have fun” Without having the feeling of wanting that guy to actually fall for them for real.Some still think that after bagi mesti the guy fall for them punya..

By: Anu

Anu — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 06:56:20 +0000

Makes a lot of sense to me! Love the picture in the post! Good one.

By: Nick Phillips

Nick Phillips — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 06:26:12 +0000

If I were you I’d run and hide from those hordes of men I heard was looking for you … LOL!

But I have to agree with you 100%. Makes total sense. Two thumbs and two toes up for ya buddy … hehehe …

By: Olie

Olie — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 05:38:56 +0000

wah.. again sounds so familiar.. ha,ha,ha,ha….. the waiting is indeed all worth it ;-p
let him wait… why the rush?

btw nice legs… ermm.. I mean chicken wings! LoLs…

By: Fei

Fei — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 00:29:30 +0000

hahah!! i like the heinz ad!!! its hot alright!

By: Faiez

Faiez — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 16:20:47 +0000

Daniel mah friend, you sound like my 70 years old uncle lar! U don’t believe in casual sex anymore? Mel, I saluta you, babe, hehehe!

But then girls, if you’re into relationship, maybe you should wait lah. But if girls just want to have fun, then no need la waitttt… you shouldn’t feel used if you’re willing, but if you secret-secret want bf bf like that, of kos la feel hurt and used like that after kena already!

By: Gallivanter

Gallivanter — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 15:01:15 +0000

Regina Cassandra – Yup, that’s the secret, and it looks like the men are not too happy with this post, as I notice more ladies commenting. Oopsy!

Jemima –

massy – Puck puck! Now you know what we imagine when we call you chicks. LOL.

Ki//joy – It’s not betraying bah, but more like, errrrr….revealing our male instinct. Exactly, women need to be more guarded, so they don’t get hurt and then lay siege on mankind or turn into a lesbian.

chegu carol – See, Alvin’s a good man. Please tell Alvin to contact me, I’ll give him my bank number.

Mel-C – Just doing my bit for the gullible ladies who still believe in fairy tales.

Rozella – Yes, if he wants you bad enough, he’ll wait.

d e s – Well, trust me, not all ladies will heed this, as they feel that they’re in control of the men.

emelda – Correcto mundo! Better be safe than sorry.