Comments on: 20 Relationship Decrees

By: Gallivanter

Gallivanter — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 13:54:16 +0000

kreatiiv – Yeah, the word train is politically incorrect!

shirley aka beautiza – Point taken. It’s not the simplicity of the rules that gets to men, it’s how it’s communicated to us. Remember, we have egos, and whether feminists tells us otherwise, the male species is the more dominant one, hence, we cannot be trained, but encouraged. Nature.

By: shirley aka beautiza

shirley aka beautiza — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 02:51:19 +0000

it takes two people to make rules.. agree or disagree.. rules pointed..but when one break the rules.. the other one suffer!..
Sorry guys..but i don’t know why guys don’t understand simple rules.. okay ..this may only be my husband.. but it drive me crazy sometimes..its different when we were just couple.. rules are between me and you..but know when we are married.. they are our rules, house rules.. rules for the kids.. wow.. but luckily he is learning.. wow.. sorry sometimes we, ladies..have to nag! wah.. give me an idea of what to post next..thanx..

By: kreatiiv

kreatiiv — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 19:29:39 +0000

Train men? They human okay not dog lol

I find this post quite educational too. And very straight to the point

kreatiiv’s last blog post..One of those crazy days.

By: Gallivanter

Gallivanter — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 14:27:16 +0000

Olie – No la, I’m more luckier to have her.

By: Olie

Olie — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 13:22:28 +0000

Like I said…. Lucky Mel! ))

By: Gallivanter

Gallivanter — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 12:31:52 +0000

Olie – Well, as you said, saying and doing are two different things. I’m no saint either, still learning to be that better person for Mel.

By: Olie

Olie — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 03:10:56 +0000

Nicely said… easier said than done … do you do counseling ka Dan? ha,ha,ha… eii… how I wish everybody in the world thinks like you do… *konon* Lucky you Mel! hmmppfff… ;-p

Olie’s last blog post..Itu Kamu – Estranged

By: Gallivanter

Gallivanter — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 15:28:01 +0000

Rozella – Correcto.

JenJen – There’s no such thing as “train”, you have to ask us for help. We cannot be “trained”.

Miki Panda – Very true.

Rainer Yong – Ya man, anger sex…heck any form of sex man…woohoo!! But seriously, never go to bed angry.

Lisa – Really? That sounds more like girls, because most guys I know are always up front about it. We want a solution, and not to be heard.

shirley aka beautiza – I disagree. There are rules, else a relationship will go bust.

emelda – Yeah, as I said, you cannot “train” us nor point a gun to us. The only way we’ll get off our butts if you ask for help nicely.

cheska – Why don’t you forward it to them?

Nick Phillips – Agreed.

xin – High five!

claire bennet – Yeah, both need to work hard to foster the relationship.

Alv0808 – You can always print this off, FOC, courtesy of Gallivanter.

By: Alv0808

Alv0808 — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 10:05:51 +0000

Good info..I shoul;d remember that

By: claire bennet

claire bennet — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 08:30:38 +0000

true..true...it's frustrating when you can't seem to get to ur other half...4 & 8 are a must. claire bennet’s last blog post..Blood

By: xin

xin — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 07:41:09 +0000

i agree with this – 13 – Never go to bed angry.

should clear all the hatred before bed

xin’s last blog post..DIY: Ochien aka Oyster Omelet

By: Nick Phillips

Nick Phillips — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 06:48:14 +0000

The most important thing in a relationship is respect and communication

Nick Phillips’s last blog post..Oh, Happy Day!

By: cheska

cheska — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 03:39:53 +0000

uhm…so much stuff…can’t take them all in…brain freeze…hey, wait. i don’t need to remember those right now. i’ll just save them in my laptop for future reference with future boyfriend. hehehehehe…

this is a nice post. wished all my ex-bfs read it before though.

cheska’s last blog post..it’s all about the look

By: emelda

emelda — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 02:45:55 +0000

Jen-jen – Man can never be “train”..PERIOD. But what you can do is ask him to help,TELL him you need help. If you expect them to be “trained”..that will never happen, Trust me!! You are lucky if that ever happen…but it may also lead you to feeling frustrated due to long nagging and training session

Hopefully by voicing out that you need help,he will slowly pick up the pace.

That’s how it was with me and Dan and im proud to say..he is picking up the pace now. Now he does the laundry and folds the clothes and sometimes help me water my plants too.

But erm,don’t expect your hubby to do a PERFECT job for the first few times la…hehehe.

emelda’s last blog post..Camera, all men dream to have

By: shirley aka beautiza

shirley aka beautiza — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 02:22:35 +0000

no rules in relationship.. got to know your partner in and out.. you can figure out how to give and take.. not easy oh.. lol..that’s life

By: Lisa

Lisa — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 02:09:29 +0000

Solve problems on the go, do not bottle it <--i agree with this... but some guys love to let the problems go or let it be without wanting to confront it =| Lisa’s last blog post..Surviving MBA life

By: Rainer Yong

Rainer Yong — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 01:11:07 +0000

I mean going to bed angry is okay. As long as you do "forgive" each other in bed. ahem. Rainer Yong’s last blog post..Obese Dog!

By: Miki Panda

Miki Panda — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 00:28:29 +0000

Yups, I agree. Another thing to add: 'and respect each other's beliefs'. Miki Panda’s last blog post..WiMAX, yeay !

By: JenJen

JenJen — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 00:24:41 +0000

WOW! So many ‘laws’ to remember. Ermm, how to ‘train’ the hubby to share the housework ah?

By: Rozella

Rozella — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 00:04:53 +0000

Never go to bed angry. Amen to that! It just spoils everything.