21 Comments to “The Rise of Cougars – Women Who Date Younger Men”

  1. sheela

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    confidence and sexual appearance? how about money and sexual experience instead? (”,) I dont know to be happy about it or to be sad about it…hmm….

  2. kristie

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    he is pretty funny… i guess she wants someone who isnt so serious!

  3. Sarah

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    heh you know what? an australian lady i knew told me this when i asked her why she just drools over handsome younger men “oh you know how we feel like when you reach that age. it’s just this crrraaazzzy feeling you get.” but im not 40 yet and i never got to korek why a bunch of older ladies are crazy over young men. apparently they where all extremely excited about the topic. this is cerita lama im sharing tho but im sure the cougars were always hungry ;D

  4. jemima

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    Question: Why do young men date older women?

  5. Nick Phillips

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    Ok, this is going to sound embarrassing but I never knew what cougar meant until a couple of months ago … LOL! See I told you it was gonna sound embarrassing ….

  6. sweetie~

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    yes agree with jemima…..why wanna blame women whereas it’s the younger men who are hungry to be with older women….haha.

  7. AngelBear

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    I’ve seen one cougar hunting in the online chatrooms…she will never stop and still is looking for fresh meat. =/

  8. Christopher

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    the list go on and on…. madonna, joan collins, demi moore..etc etc

  9. foongpc

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    Maybe it’s the trend nowadays? Older women and younger men? But don’t these older women feel insecure cos they have so much wrinkles whereas the men have perfect skin! And also, the men can leave them anytime for younger women?

    I think the younger men probably want older women because sex is better, and usually the women are richer, so he can have a good life and besides, if the marriage ends up in divorce, he’ll probably get half her fortune?

  10. sweetie~

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    who wouldn’t want a fresh meat? haha

  11. JL

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    Sugar mummy? :lol:

  12. Gallivanter

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    sheela – No, I believe men are attracted to older women for different reasons that younger women who are attracted to older men are. It’s different.

    kristie – A toy boy.

    Sarah – Yeah, a woman reaches her sexual peak at 40.

    jemima – The attraction to their confidence and sexual experience lah, didn’t I just say that in my post? :-P

    Nick Phillips – No la, we all learn all the time, no worries.

    sweetie~ – Blame? What talking you?

    AngelBear – LOL!

    Christopher – Yeap, sexual experience, as opposed to why younger women date older men. ;-)

    foongpc – Nope, older women do not feel as insecure as younger women and that’s a fact, that’s why younger men are drawn to them – CONFIDENCE. The fortune part only applies to younger women and older men and not the other way around. :-)

    sweetie~ – LOL.

    JL – Well, how often do you hear news about younger men marrying older women who are about to kick the bucket as opposed to younger women marrying old farts who would drop dead anytime? ;-)

  13. gregchai

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    may be it’s a win-win situation, hehehe

  14. Horny Ang Moh

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    $$$$$$ that is the first & foremost reason & ‘pokeing sexperiance’ a distant second!!!
    Now I don’t mind pokeing an older women so long as she is rich ( Now that is a very attractive option now with my wallet wafer thin! :( ) as for her pokeing sexperiance well I can always pretend to enjoy it can’t I???!!!
    Hemmmm!!! I think there might me some truth in reaching pokeing peak at 17! I do remember last time when the sight of a sexy leg will make me go cookoo!

  15. evin

    Mar 23rd, 2009

    maybe bcoz older women much more smarter dealing with emotions.tak byk karenah such as younger women yg kuat merajuk,etc.much easier to handle.they know how to use Psychology to take ‘control’ younger men emotion….i guess.. :P

  16. Gallivanter

    Mar 24th, 2009

    gregchai – But of course. :-)

    Horny Ang Moh – Nope, I disagree, for the male, I think the attraction is the sexual experience more and also the fact that the women are more confident, money comes second. :-)

    evin – Spot on. ;-)

  17. cicak

    Mar 25th, 2009

    Erk! How about the likes such as myself who found elder women (not old women) beautiful?

    Lena Heady, Shania Twain etc
    and Demi Moore is not so bad herself

    :P

  18. Gallivanter

    Mar 25th, 2009

    cicak – Of course, hence the post and reasons behind it. :-)

  19. lvynana

    Mar 30th, 2009

    women peak at 40? ye ke!
    Like the movie ‘The Reader’.

  20. Gallivanter

    Mar 30th, 2009

    lvynana – Yes, women sexually peak around that age, and that’s a fact.

  21. sexy1

    Apr 6th, 2009

    I´m 45yo, my fiance is 30yo. We´re very much in love and believe it´s our fate to spend the rest of our lives together till wrinkles fade to black… We´re both college educated and come from traditional families. Although I (the female) bring home a much larger paycheck than he does, I don´t believe that he´s marrying me for my money. He tells me how hot I look all the time and we have a great sex life, the likes of which he says he never experienced. He was an athlete in college and still mainstains his gorgeous body. He gave me a lovely tiny bikini from Brazil to wear during our honeymoon in Thailand this summer. Proof that he´s confidence in my look in public. You´re missing the point in what makes a relationship successful, it´s not money or sex (albeit important ingredients), it is strong emotional connection.