8 traits that Men find attractive in a Woman
SharePosted on 28. May, 2009 by Gallivanter in Gender, Sex
HER SMILE
Goes without saying – her smile can set our hormones raging with hunka hunka burning love. It’s like a magnet that draws our attention.
HER FEMINITY
Let’s face it, no dude like a manly woman unless the dude’s having a serious sexual orientation issue. We are drawn to this simply because deep down inside, we’re small children and need your loving! Hence – the more delicate, soft, kind-hearted and caring you are, the more we love ya! But of course, it must come with confidence and not weak or overly shy.
HER VOICE
Yowza! Need I say more? At times I wonder how the men living in India find their women attractive because almost all of them have deep low voices which is a turn-off to most men.
HER SENSE OF HUMOR
But of course, lucky Mel has one good enough to put up with my crazy antics. We’re not saying that you should be able to make people laugh until snot comes out from their noses, but to understand and laugh at jokes.
HER MAINTENANCE
Being down-to-earth and not high maintenance are turn-ons for men. We equate high maintenance to being snobbish bitchy character that will just be as annoying as a pimple on your face.
HER PERSONALITY
Weak women make us puke – hence strong personality coupled with her ability to make her own sound decisions are definitely a plus. But, please note there’s a difference between strong personality and being just plain ass stubborn.
HER EYES
Definitely! That’s why you see some women go all out to improve their eyes by wearing colored contact lenses and all that jazz. They know that some men can simply fall in love with the woman’s eyes – as the eyes say everything.
HER HAIR
I always preferred women with long hair (pass the shoulders) because it’s feminine. All that talk about women having short hair is plain hogwash. Sure, you can have short hair when you’re older because you have passed the sell-by-date. Real men prefer women with long hair.
Is there other traits that you can think off? That question is directed to men ONLY, because women’s perception towards men liking stick figures and all the BS that the fashion world led them to believe is skewered.
tomato
May 28th, 2009
i like her personality.
a bit sense of humor does add some attraction
sumunie
May 28th, 2009
Now I know why you fall in love with your sweetheart..ehm
Alv0808
May 28th, 2009
I wonder which those traits i have that make my ^-^ love me..hehhehee
Daniel Ng
May 28th, 2009
Her body-)P
weng
May 28th, 2009
have to disagree on the hair length part .. i find girls with short hair attractive .. to me it’s like sending out a message ‘hey, im confident enough of my feminity without keeping my hair long’ .. and that is sexay ..
cheers .. (:
Cathj
May 28th, 2009
Maintenance???? jeezzz… lol…
cicak
May 28th, 2009
Usually I’ll check out the eyes, the smile and how she speaks.
Sense of humor is a must.
ahmad fadli
May 28th, 2009
I’m sooo gonna write my version of this article on my blog these 1 or 2 days Daniel
Faiez
May 28th, 2009
Woi! I’m better with shorthair u saying I expired my sell-by-date lar? I donch like you anymore… NOT! Hahaha!
perry
May 28th, 2009
Good to know that we men are not just all attracted to pure physical qualities. But, I must caution against the eyes. Sometimes, some women just do a bit too much about them…like wearing green contacts that totally doesn’t suit their skin colour and makes them look like a devil!
blinkky
May 29th, 2009
Personally, the attraction of a women for me is her smile.
kelvin
May 29th, 2009
i totally agree on the maintenance part
and all the rest are important as well on the traits
can anyone find me a gal wit all those traits????
hehehehehe
Gallivanter
May 31st, 2009
tomato – Touche.
sumunie –
Alv0808 – You gotta ask him that, and let me know, I might have missed other points.
Daniel Ng – Hmmm…
weng – I disagree. Girls with short hair, just doesn’t have the oomph. Long hair is equivalent to divine feminity.
Cathj –
cicak – Ole!
ahmad fadli – Do it and let me know k?
Also, if you have any ideas about gender topics, let me know cause I’m running out of ideas. LOL.
Faiez – Nothing personal, it’s business.
perry – Agreed, I still don’t know why women think by using non-natural colors for their contact lens, it makes them look sexy. More like painful.
blinkky – Smile is KEY.
kelvin – Not easy. Really, really not easy.
Rozella
Jun 2nd, 2009
Hahahaha I just cut my hair super duper short. How lah this?
Rozella
Jun 2nd, 2009
But…you can’t blame us for being insecure about our looks right? With the media constantly bombarding us with images of perfect skinny models…who lah won’t feel not good enough.
Vienne
Jun 3rd, 2009
hehe..i totally agree with this, because my other half always told me not to cut short my hair…
but most of the men will prefer woman who can cook even a simple food. is it?
Gallivanter
Jun 3rd, 2009
Rozella – Wear a wig?
The media is full of gay people, especially the fashion industry. Why? So they can make women look like sticks and continue their objective of trying to convert as many males to turn gay. 
Vienne – Yeah, just like how I always encourage Mel to keep her hair long, though after children, it’s fine to chop off the locks.
As for food, not really a prerequisite for me, though you’re right, simple, like me, my favorite, Sambal Ikan Bilis. 
Yan
Jun 5th, 2009
Ohhh now I feel like a perfect woman
Although I need to work on the last point. Being possessed to chop off my hair last few months but in the process to grow it back now. Haha.
*grin*
Gallivanter
Jun 5th, 2009
Yan – Good, keep it long please, at least shoulder length.
Yan
Jun 5th, 2009
Dan – Yeap, it is shoulder length now. Cant wait for it to grow longer. I miss the sexy look. Don’t matter if people say that I am feeling insecure with short hair but I need my long hair back. It adds the sexiness in me lol
Gallivanter
Jun 7th, 2009
Yan – Noticed you blogged about it.
Yan
Jun 8th, 2009
Dan,I did.
Hope it’s okay
Gallivanter
Jun 8th, 2009
Yan – No problemo of course.