Where Women Love to Be Touched
Posted on 14. Sep, 2009 by Gallivanter in Sex
We all know which female body parts men most frequently like to explore, but there is more to her than a vagina, breasts and butt. The largest amount of nerve endings may be packed into those areas, but she has pleasure sensors all over her body, and getting her in the mood may be as easy as stimulating some of these often-neglected parts. Incorporating touching these places into foreplay and sex, or just giving her some pleasure after a hard day, will definitely earn you some brownie points.
Hair
Maintaining their gorgeous locks isn’t the only reason women go to their hairstylists so often. The process of wash, cut, color, and styling can actually be quite a stress reliever. Running your hands gently through her hair is a surefire way to send tingles down her spine. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the nape of her neck and she’ll be putty in your hands.
Nape of her neck
Once you get to the nape of her neck, place a few light kisses there. In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was seen as very attractive by men since it was one of the few places not covered by clothing. In modern times, the nape of the neck is often neglected in favor of more obvious pleasure centers, but never underestimate the power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders.
Clavicle
A well-defined clavicle, or collarbone, can be very sexy on a woman. Why not show your appreciation for its beauty with your touch and kiss? Pay attention to this body part while she’s still fully clothed, unbuttoning her shirt just enough to reveal the clavicle and no further. You can always come back to it once the clothes have disappeared as well to remind her of the anticipation it created when you started there.
Small of her back
The best way to guide your woman through a crowd is to place your hand against the small of her back. This small gesture shows that you feel protective of her without being too pushy like an arm around the shoulder might be. When you’re alone, kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back will get her heart racing.
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nd her knees
This area is one that most men don’t think of when trying to stimulate a woman, but it is, in fact, quite sensitive. Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirt while the two of you are in a public place will make her ready to get busy once you get home. Don’t forget to pay some more attention to this special spot once you’re alone too.
Palms of her hands
People often use their hands as tools to please their partners, but rarely do they consider the pleasure potential of stimulating the hands themselves. The palm of a woman’s hand is an innocuous spot to focus a little attention on without making people around you uncomfortable. Tracing your finger along her palm will give her delightful shivers and make you appear sensitive and attentive.
Earlobes
Touching, kissing and even lightly biting the earlobes of your woman will up the bliss factor for her. These delicate, soft lobes are very sensitive and most women thoroughly enjoy the sensation of having a man’s lips on them. You can nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, but for courtesy’s sake avoid jamming your tongue inside her ear.
Feet
Pulp Fiction taught us that rubbing the feet of another man’s wife may be an offense punishable by being thrown out a window, so the sensual appeal of a foot massage is obvious. There are few better ways to help her relax than to give her feet a good rub, especially if her job requires her to be on them all day. Do it right and grab some massage oil or lotion. Don’t forget to pay some attention to her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet too. Some women really enjoy having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so asking first is a good idea before putting them in your mouth.
Inner thighs
Touching her inner thighs without venturing into the vaginal area will make for an excellent tease that is sure to get her revved up. Use your hands and mouth to caress and kiss the insides of her thighs, getting excruciatingly close to her ultimate pleasure spot, but pulling back before going all the way.
Pelvis
Concentrating some affection on her pelvis is a great idea, however, you’ll have to resist the urge to slip down to her vagina while you’re so close. Like teasing her inner thighs, kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite her until she’s begging for more. Prolong the sensation by leaving the region to focus on another body part for a while.
DO GO THERE
Every inch of her body is covered with nerve endings that could be stimulated, but that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t have some no-go places. Some women can’t stand to have their faces touched, while others find it unbearable if their hands are tickled. As you explore, you’ll learn which places your touch has the best effect on and which you should avoid.
Yes, we men like to believe it’s at the obvious places – boobs, bum or vagina. While it is true that those areas have the most tingling impact, don’t neglect the other parts.
Her hair.
The back of her neck.
Her collarbone.
Her lower back.
Her ears.
Her inner thighs.
Her pelvic area.
This is based on my experiences. Some women like to be touched at their knees or feet. But be careful when finding your woman’s sweet spots, because some areas to them, is highly sensitive and it might invoke a different reaction that might see you flying across the South China Sea.
Good luck.
xin
Sep 14th, 2009
LOL. i hate it when people touch the back of my neck or put their hands on my shoulder. i will send them straight to Atlantic ocean.
Alv0808
Sep 14th, 2009
If someone do that to me..siap!!v he will flying free to Timbuktu.. except the ‘authorized’person
..wakakakaa
philters
Sep 14th, 2009
guys, there is a difference between putting your hands on a girl’s shoulder as a sign of affection, and using our shoulders to rest your arms. our shoulders are not arm rests and does not function the same was as the back of a chair.
not a big fan of the back of th neck thing either, actually. not with hands, anyway.
kenwooi
Sep 14th, 2009
interesting.. haha.. =D
Coffee Girl
Sep 14th, 2009
True. But each woman differs from the next one, so, good luck too!
tekkaus
Sep 14th, 2009
Looks like you have quite a lot of experience huh! :p
ahmoi_chantek
Sep 14th, 2009
hair, ears, back of her neck..oh wee. hahahaa..
naith_kk
Sep 14th, 2009
South China Sea Daniel? there’s another place a girl will land you in… a chiropractor’s office just so you can move around normal again… haha!
cyril
Sep 15th, 2009
Good tips… but if its across the south China Sea, then you’ll land in Swk or Sabah…
For those from Borneo.. its a free ticket home! ;P
ladyviral
Sep 15th, 2009
Hi there, Daniel.
Thank you for dropping by my blog and commenting. Your well wishes was greatly received and I am all better now hee~
Love your blog. Very interesting facts.
But here is a comment for this post. I don’t like to be touched at those places you mentioned
. I prefer the cheeks… of course I am not talking about arousing spots yea? hehehe. 
pirut
Sep 15th, 2009
I love to touch all of theirs.. haha..
Gallivanter
Sep 15th, 2009
xin – What about using their lips instead?
Alv0808 – Of course it has to be the authorized person.
philters – You mean some guys don’t know the difference? WTF!
kenwooi – Go forth and multiply!
Coffee Girl – Exactly.
tekkaus – When it comes to women, we are FOREVER learning.
ahmoi_chantek –
naith_kk – Hmmm, that is depends on what you did to the girl that made she give you that instead.
cyril – Oh ya! That includes me too….oh Mel honey!
ladyviral – Oh really, none? I stand corrected.
pirut – I’m sure you do!