Quantity vs Quality – A Shift in Sexual Paradigm
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There was initially one school of thought about the frequency of sex. I believe the paradigm is shifting. The old perspective is that the lesser the better, i.e. it’s all about quality. However, I think with the progress of human sexuality over the decades, this no longer holds water.
Less frequency does not mean better quality. In fact, the more the quantity, the better the quality. In typical economics fashion, where supply and demand maintains the equilibrium of price and quantity, I think sex can no longer be attributed as the lower the frequency the better the quality.
Quantity vs Quality - Shift in Sexual Paradigm
Define quality. I bet you it does not involve experience at all. How does one gain experience and improve over time if there is less frequency? It’s like a production plant, the more you churn, the better quality you become, because you improve.
This topic came about when Mel and I had a discussion about a question of sex in our Catholic Marriage Preparation Course (CMPC). While Mel is old school in terms of quality, I think that no longer applies in current society, or at least, people who care enough about sex that they want to improve.
However, there is a certain plateau too, an apex of performance where both of you as couples must figure out else it ultimately devalues the experience of sex.
So, the new formula, is Quantity Up = Quality Up, with an apex of course. Your thoughts?
wel
Jan 14th, 2010
more and more will create better quality..practice makes perfect ka tu…haha…
donny
Jan 14th, 2010
quality=sex
Pinknpurplelizard
Jan 14th, 2010
This question is best directed to Tiger Woods. Hahahahaha….!
Aj
Jan 14th, 2010
Read kamasutra to gain skills.. hahaha
sweetie~
Jan 14th, 2010
from my experience (ahem ahem),if the quality is always up…u need less the qty….
as a saying goes….if the sex was soooooooo good a.k.a u r very much satisfied….it’ll be enuf for a month supply…..that means it’ll be okay not to have sex for a month(or may be a week)….hehe
KC
Jan 15th, 2010
I echo your tots on Quantity Up = Quality Up Daniel !
But then, Quantity Up refers to the same partner or different partner? ;-D
I like the Coolidge Effects..hehehehe
DeeLoner
Jan 18th, 2010
definitely!!! Practise, practise and more practise!