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Why do Foreigners Believe Asian Women are Easy?
Yes, that’s the statement made by a few Europeans I know as they were counting their one-night bonkadeedoodah like it’s a race for sainthood. I wonder if there is some truth in it. Before you women go all berserko and defensive over this quote, something must have obviously made these white dudes come to such conclusion, right?
Obviously, generalizing is an ignorant take on the matter, but then again, the process of generalizing is as natural as the process of breathing. It’s human nature, despite what you might try to argue and ultimately fail.
Is it because that Asian women are brought up by western influence and believe that almost every white men is God’s gift to Asian women, looking for a way out of the current life they live in, wanting mix-parentage children plus all the things money can buy? I say it’s an arguable yes, because it is a logical way of thinking anyway, despite it may come off as pure naiveness.
Why do Foreigners Believe Asian Women are Easy?
95% of the white dudes I have met in my lifetime, are strong believer in this, hence though they may “try” to be loyal to one, truth is, they’re bonking like there’s no tomorrow, but smart enough to get away with it not getting caught, or if they are caught, they apologize to their submissive women because they know that their Asian women won’t break up with them, due to their demand in the dating scene.
I shall not write more at the risk of these defensive Asian women going bonkers with this post. I know that some Asian women are easy and those are not worth having relationships with.
Personally, I take it as an insult in that statement by white men despite it being true to a little extent. What else can I do to prove these foreigners otherwise?
Heh..no wonder I see a lot of angmohs having Asian girlfriends. Especially from Philipines and Singapore..I think a friend of mine and I have discuss about this in his blog. Mostly because these Asian women wants a mix-heritage kids or good looking or something “deliciously” looking of a package (sorry to be blunt but i think you will get what i mean..LOL~)..So, i’m not surprise if the Angmohs think Asian women are easy..;)
well…it’s a bitter pill to swallow but I guess there are some truth in that…. =.=|||
I’ve seen a lot of my ex schoolmate having a foreigner boyfriend and only 10% a workout.. I dont trust foreigner anyway..hehehe..they come to work or study and then next step looking for companion..Asian woman are too ‘friend;y’ I guess..hehehe
everyone have their point of view from what they see.
Why not we think in another way round, why do these angmoh like Asian women instead of their own angmoh women?
Asian women are just HOT HOT HOT, and somehow not just the women but everyone in general sees the foreigner as some ‘superior’ race.
History through out proves that we Asian always thinks that the white dude is somehow god sent because of their advancement in technology and the money that they have.
Having the white dude as partner is somehow like trying to get whole of the fortune that the foreigner have.
To have much more better life. now who is willing to give that opportunity up even though they know the relationship might not work out.
Still I cant deny that true love does exist XD
LOL. I can see you are trying to be very careful with your post and to be honest, yes many people in mixed relationships would probably retaliate (as would I!) but you were trying not to gross generalise which is a good thing! I have to agree there are cases whereby Asian women can be seen as being easy (specific race & nationalities are mega SPG’s)which makes it difficult for mixed couples with genuine relations to even walk down the street without being judged! P.s My other half on the other hand was not impressed by your blog post! Free world dude– but note to people NOT all asian girls are easy!
I don’t think it’s the Asian women only who are easy… it’s basically a matter of perception. One thing I can think of is the influence of movies on our perception of European foreigners, where one night stands seem to be acceptable, as opposed to the slightly more prudish nature of Asians… so the women probably think that the dude being European, he’s alright with that.
Another thing that crosses my mind is how shy Asian men can be, hence possibilities of one night stands are slightly less. On the other hand, foreigners seem to be less shy and somehow seem to be able to charm the socks off certain women.
PS: This is just my opinion based on random observation – I’ve never dated any Europeans before
well may be…but not all….! chasing a so called “better life” may be…..
there’s this perception where if u r with a white men then u r hot!….personally i never thought so…what i saw is if some girls were with white then they are cheap!! haha….but again not all!!
honestly, being an asian woman myself, some were to blame for the stereotyping. the assumption is not far from truth to some extent. the difference is, those who act on it and those who actually see any man beyond the colour of their skin.
we think that white men are a hot catch sometimes. im not in the way of true love but sometimes when we see an asian woman end up with an aged white man, you tend to think…maybe they are thinking, tua pun tua la, asal orang putih…
Sarah – Correcto mundo, I think because of their “logical” objectives, they loose their dignity in the process.
AngeLBeaR – Yup.
Alv0808 – Yeah, well ultimately, it’s not the skin color that determines a relationship. I’m talking about a white man’s perception of Asian women, and I’m telling you, they ALL think the same.
ladycooper – Because they’re easy to get?
Daniel Chiam – Nice one, but in pursuit of such happiness, these women lower their inhibitions.
mia – Haha! Of course not all Asian women are easy, but then again, what made these 95% white friends of mine come to that conclusion – I know approximately 30 blokes from all over Europe, and also through other friends, who share the same thinking. Why?
TerraShield – Perception for sure. Again, this is not a post on why Asian women choose white men, but rather why whites think Asian women are easy.
sweetie~ – Perhaps, but for them to reach a conclusion like this, surely Asian women are doing something wrong, no?
Lifejuicer – True, however, I think with the number of white men I have met – their perception is based on real life experiences. Haha!
I’ll tell you why mate: one word-Ignorance! A couple of my friends (& my hubbys!) think the same, some are shocked that Asians in general are actually (*gasp*) educated and can speak English- adui!
I as a woman, never think that whites are superior than us Asians. They might think that Asian women are easy but they should look at the own women too. now, make a comparison. I think both are pretty much on par with each other.
About Asian men being too shy to initiate one night stands, they way I see it, not anymore. LOL! just look at those self-made porn videos. Even those yang tinggal di kebun2 pun producing their own videos (awek felda, XXX di kelapa sawit, etc.)
I’ll tell you why mate: one word-Ignorance! Ok also they may have had that one experience with an Asian girl but shame on them for thinking so especially since Caucasian girls can be just as ‘easy’! But your 30 friends may make-up 0.0000001% of the white population so: you lose some & you win some-Mari suruh diorang jumpa me—I’ll sort them out!
Nevertheless, your blog posts have never failed to entertain and amuse me!
@Gallivanter: True. That’s why local guys whine and complain because of the ladies “logical” objectives. I’d say 95% percent works and the other 5%? Fail i guess..It’s because of the ladies objectives created this kind of perceptions. No pun intended tho’ coz I know not all Asian women are easy and cheap. There are some are very much a tough cookie and not easily being convince or persuade..;)
@Mia: Hahahahaha..well you should tell your hubby tell those angmohs “Welcome to the Real World of Asia!” Agagagaga~
So betul..they think asian woman are easy..petik jari..sepuluh datang..specially kalau they have blue eyes..average body…with loads of money…
I remember when i was dating this S.A dude…He decided to show his true colors to me when i decided to stay partying with my Gf ( whom i known for more than 7 years) by telling me..”it’s my lost” just because i do not want to go back together with him that night… HAH! What an ass… and at that point of time i only got to know him less than 6 months..dah tunjuk belang!
I also found out later after we’ve stopped seeing one another that he was dating 3 more asian girls behind my back during our dating time.
DUH, betul!
Mia – Ignorance or based on real life results? I shall not say too much as I would then be giving these vultures away. Haha!
Sarah – I don’t complain about these ladies, to each their own, but don’t la until give such impression to these white blokes.
emelda – Yeah, they’re just maximizing the women they can get in Asia while they still can.
I’m skeptical when it comes to Westerners. Especially expats. I mean…seriously….
Men like that have too much MCP-ness in them. The girls that fall for them so easily are such bimbos and so lala. Ppl who fall under these categories should not be allowed to reproduce. Hahahaha…
Lizzy gone mad.
ah! Crap! hahah
earthy emily – It’s good to be skeptical, but of course, not too much either.
PinknPurpleLizard – OK, whatever you say, I agree, but please, do not insult lala, I think they’re one of the best seafood dishes.
willie – Crap indeed.
I have friends and relatives who have married angmohs and their marriages have lasted.
One word… POCAHONTAS
Becklee – What’s that got to do with this post?
d1n0z@ – Errr, so it’s because of POCAHONTAS, foreigners think Asian women are easy??
@Gallivanter: Lol!No lah, just trying to destroy the white blokes “little” fantasy of getting together with Asian women..*wiggle eyebrows*
asian women are just so desirable!! cute sexy figure and beautiful tan skin complexion – exotic to foreign men!!!
haha
i always have a thought that, a couple of caucasian guy and an asian lady, the lady must’ve been the hooker or something.
pardon my ignorance.
but i gotta agree with what u’re thinking. have a friend whose sister only go for caucasian guy cuz she said asian guys are lower class compared to caucasian. lucky her, she got a loyal husband who listen to her like a dog.
otherwise, i’m still very much a chinaman who wants kids of black hair and small eyes.
Maybe it’s cause Asian women go crazy over foreigners – namely white dudes.
He could look like Anton Chigurh for all you know, but as long as he’s white, Asian women immediately go into a trance-like state and worship ‘em.
Then they suddenly out of the blue speak with an accent and change their name from Pui Ting Mo to Pauline Moon. :p
I think this is because these people have frequented Thailand cities like Bangkok, Pattaya, Hatyai. etc.
Certain foreign movies aren’t exactly helping these girls in terms of giving them good publicity anyway.
Full Metal Jacket (by Stanley Kubrick, 1987), quote from a Da Nang hooker: “Hey baby, you got girlfriend Vietnam? Me so horny. Me love you long time.”
And not to forget that 1960 movie, “The World of Suzie Wong”, with little Suzie playing the role of, surprise surprise (not)… a Chinese hooker…
Everyone forgets that most serial killers are white guys in their mid 20s to 40s. Just something to think about
I know what you mean and I know for a fact that you’re not being rude to us Asians because you did some research and that you apologized to those who might find the title offense or the content itself.
Well, I am a Filipina and I know in real life that there are other Filipinas who goes for foreigners. Why? Well, those Filipinas are from lower class (yes I’m being blunt and somewhat mean about this but this is all true) so the only way they could get away from poverty. Urgh.
Okay I’m way out of topic here. Hm there’s some truth in the article you have written and all I can say is that not every asian girl is easy. Females who have higher education aren’t easily swayed by foreigners.
I, myself, am not into foreigners because they scare me. There was one time where I was buying some doughnuts then there’s this foreign person who seemed to have “appeared out of nowhere” and was also buying some bread then he suddenly asked me whether I’m korean and there we talked for a couple of minutes (I was being polite to him but I feel uncomfortable deep inside) then he asked for my name and wanted to know if he could see me again. I was mentally freaking out – okay I may be overreacting but it scares me. In the end, I told him politely that I doubt we would meet again and I quickly left the store.
I guess it depends on the female’s upbringing, really.
Some chinese women are super cheap and easy, they go for foreign men without reason. As a Chinese guy, I think that they go for money and social status, they do not go for love. Some white dudes date Asian women because they want some exotic sex. My point of view is those cheap Asian women are not worth to date, both for Asian men and other men.