I’ve done one in Facebook, before I got this tag from Rozella. The only tags that I will ever do is when it’s linked to music and nothing else! 

The Rules:
1. Put your iTunes/Napster/Zune Player/WinAmp/etc on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS! NO SKIPPING!!!!
4. Tag 10 or more friends who might enjoy doing this as well as the person you got it from.

IF SOMEONE SAYS “IS THIS OKAY” YOU SAY?
Blu Cantrell – Hit Em Up Style (what da hell – hit em up by spending yer money!)

WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL?
En Vogue – Free Your Mind (yes, a girl with a free mind)

HOW DO YOU FEEL TODAY?
Richard Marx – Satisfied (Really? Emotionally yes, but physically not yet..LOL)

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE?
KLF & Tammy Wynette – Justified and Ancient (To drive an icecream van??)

WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO
Level 42 – Lessons In Love (oh yes, lessons, we all need ‘em)

WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU?
Bon Jovi – These Open Arms (I used to have my arms open, not anymore these days – can’t stand the bullshit)

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR PARENTS?
Indecent Obession – Fixing a Broken Heart (oh yes, mom’s a good fixer)

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
Bon Jovi – Hearts Breaking Even (no way Jose, I’m too much of an optimist)

WHAT IS 2+2?
Aerosmith – I Dont Wanna Miss a Thing (indeed – now strip)

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR BEST FRIEND?
CCR – Have You Ever Seen The Rain (exactly!)

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
Bryan Adams – Thought I’d Died & Gone to Heaven (oh yes, Mel has that effect on me)

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY?
The Killers – Great Big Sled (Ole!)

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?
Blur – Song 2 (what the? when I feel heavy metal? I know I’m expanding horizontally, but turning into metal?)

WHAT DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
Wilson Pickett – Mustang Sally (OooOooOooo…ride sally ride!)

WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
Cranberries – Zombie (OMG! I didn’t know! That explains a million things!)

WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
Milli Vanilli – Ma Baker (that means I have to rob a bank to fund my wedding – now gimme all your money!)

WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
The Calling – Things Will Go My Way (Oh no! Wrong choice! By the time I die, things would’ve gone my way)

WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST?
Dead Eye Dick – New Age Girl (no, I’m not into vegetarians no matter who is Mary Moon)

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS?
Bon Jovi – Livin’ on a Prayer (Oh yes, many of us are)

WHAT’S THE WORST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN?
Jon Bon Jovi – Dyin’ Ain’t Much of a Livin’ (Ain’t that the truth)

HOW WILL YOU DIE?
Third Day – Born Again (Jesus Christ! Hopefully I’m born again as a musician)

WHAT IS THE ONE THING YOU REGRET?
Starship – Nothing’s Gonna Stop Us Now (LOL! Nothing’s gonna stop us from making out like rabbits and having 11 children to start a football team. Bring it!)

WHAT MAKES YOU LAUGH?
Paul Young – Oh Girl (if that was the case, I’d probably be kicked in the nuts)

WHAT MAKES YOU CRY?
Elton John – Sacrifice (oh yes, especially my mom after my dad died when I was 9)

WILL YOU EVER GET MARRIED?
Cameo – Word Up (hell yeah! I want 11 kids!)

WHAT SCARES YOU THE MOST?
Rick Price – Heaven Knows (LOL!)

DOES ANYONE LIKE YOU?
Simon Webbe – No Worries (Spot on, I don’t really care like I used to)

IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME, WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE?
Jon Bon Jovi – Blood Money (what the hell is that? Changing blood into money or going into the assassin business – Malaysian politics need one)

WHAT HURTS RIGHT NOW?
Boys II Men – On Bended Knee (oh yes, I can’t bend ma knees, dodgy caps)

WHAT WILL YOU POST THIS AS?
Bon Jovi – Something for the Pain (Amen! Music is that!)

10 Chosen Ones – Mel, Rozella, AJ, Ben, Cindy, Kay, Mimi, Olie, Papa J & Sheela. Bless you.

To Be with Good or To Be with Bad…have we become emotional masochist? How many ladies have experienced the after effects of a Bad Boy?

I conducted a survey to get a general view of what the ladies thought. I sent out two questions to over 500 girls of all degrees of hotness and ages between 18 years to 28 years.

I have grouped the comments that are similar:
1) What is the definition of a Good Boy and Bad Boy to you?
Good Boy – religious, boring, geek, ethical, weak, thoughtful, rule-abiding, never cheats on you, your parent’s ideal man, ass-kisser, mostly not good looking, cute
Bad Boy – fun, really likes to break the rules, rugged, sexy, playboy, rough, bossy, someone who would leave you once he loses interest, someone who will go against what you say, someone who won’t call you all the time, spontaneous, flirty, independent, good looking, someone who cheats, open minded, he thinks about himself first, someone who takes you for granted

2) Why do you think women choose Bad boy over Good boys?
They are more fun and unpredictable, it’s a challenge to get his attention and to tame him, even though Bad boys may disrespect you they always tell the truth, you will know how worthwhile you are if a Bad boy stays with you because if you get stale they will leave you, they are more macho so gives you the sense of security, it’s human nature to want what we can’t have and Good boys are too easy to attain, parents will not approve so there is a rush, they aren’t pussies when chasing girls, he gives the impression that he knows what he wants. Good boys are too good to you.

When I saw the answers to the questions I can’t help but think that maybe we women are emotional masochist and we don’t even know it. An emotional masochist is someone who subconsciously finds gratification from pain, deprivation and degradation.

Think about it, from what age do we start thinking “Oh, I am so fat.” “Oh I am so ugly.” “I am not as cool as her”. Women constantly worry themselves with negative thoughts not knowing that in actuality they are feeding their vortex of insecurity. We are what we think and our choices would follow suit.

Why would someone use the guy’s interest in you as a means of your worth? Why would a woman choose a guy who is aloof and unavailable over the guy that is too nice? Why would you pick someone who is such a disrespectful person just to piss your parents off? Why are Bad Boys defined as types of guys who will leave you in a heart beat when he loses interest in you or that they are the types of guys who will always take you for granted but yet majority of Women would go for the Bad Boys because they are challenging and to be able to tame him would be? What? A validation for your self worth? Does the end justify the means? Realistically?

I think there is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Arrogance is a reaction of insecurity. If someone is confident they will not find any gratification in looking down at anyone, bullying someone or disrespecting someone. (I hope this distinction helps with your filtering process).

I used Bad Boy and Good Boy perceptions to show you that, sometimes you may think that you have awareness but the type of experiences you keep seeing yourself in, is a good indicator of your inner state. Your inner state is your compass. Therefore if your inner state is highly influenced by insecurity then that is the direction your compass will lead you, and you may not even realize it if you have been around or have been subjected to continuous negativity.

Do you think we have become emotional masochist without even realizing it?

He who knows others is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened. – Lao Tzu

Wooops, danielfranklingomez.com has been Tech’ed. Hongkiat is the FIRST guest blogger. Here’s the deal, I’m offering you very simple ways to get famous but first you gotta be honest to yourself. Are you one of the following?

• Ping PPS everyday yet still ain’t getting enough hits and traffics?
• Keep leaving comments in others blog hoping to leave trace so that others will soon visit your blog?
• Pimping continuously, doing link baits, compile memes so can get more links in return?
• Stare at your metrics everyday wondering why hits are so low?
• Desperately search for latest news, attempting to blog it exclusively?
• Sending emails, PMs, promise the world and bed for one tiny pathetic link backs or link exchange?

Itu tak boleh jalan one. Here are 3 ways how to get famous overnight in the Malaysian blogosphere. All proven to be working and definitely will make you the center of attention. Let’s go!

Way 1: Accuse

Accuse the malaysian bloggers. Say they are stupid dumb-dumb, say they are liars or better still – say that in public so the press will spread the news for you. Remember to do your homework, bring up statistics like saying 8000 of them are unemployed womans. That would work.

Way 2: Insult their effort

Malaysian bloggers get together annually. Go there, show face and be nice guy. Come back, and bitch about the organizers. Complain and criticize everything. Write complete details in your blog and you will soon see reactive responses -protective- and “counter-blog” you. Don’t worry, just keep on blogging, keep on insulting them. You write 1 entry, they write 2. In the end, you end up getting famous, they end up looking like pappadoms.

First 2 methods are proven to work. I guess you are aware about the drama minggu ini that is going on.

However, for best results, the third method should do the trick, but try it at your own risk ah?

Way 3: Whack the hell up of Wingz

(……) and then cabut behind the pokok kelapa! But if he catch you, you sure die, cause he is a big man, one smack and you *kepiang* like mosquito. I have met him, and hid behind Cely. Hehehehe!

Daniel aka Gallivanter has suggested some time ago that we set up a MALAYSIAN BLOGGERHOLICS ANONYMOUS (MBA). I agree and propose for him to be nominated president, as he looks like Kublai Khan and have magical helium voice.

I hope this entry didn’t offend anyone. If it did, I’ll just stick to my tech blog.

-Hongkiat-