Should You Spy on Your Children’s Online Activities? Feb11

Should You Spy on Your Children’s Online Activities?

I think it’s an extremely delicate question to answer. On one hand, you want to monitor to prevent your children from being influenced by negativity, but on the other hand, if you do, you’ll stunt their growth to become adults to face the real world. I help keep an eye on my...

It’s Important to Protect Your Non-Work Time Jan17

It’s Important to Protect Your Non-Work Time

I’m a firm believer in this as I clearly draw the line between work and play, and there are no grey areas. Some of us take our free time for granted and do not protect it at all cost. When you work, you work, when you’re off, you relax. Sure you will say you will not earn extra...

A Daily Must-Read Mantra of Life Dec31

A Daily Must-Read Mantra of Life

This is a reminder that life’s just too short to be petty. Take 2011 by the horns and power through to greater heights. Happy New Year 2011!

Is This How We Communicate These Days? Dec22

Is This How We Communicate These Days?

What’s Your Humor Style? Dec13

What’s Your Humor Style?

There are various ways of humoring people around you. I used to have put-down humor like the English, but over the years, this has toned down, as I realize it’s nothing but a devious way of criticizing others through teasing and ridicule. After putting them down, you quickly say,...

2 Things to Know Before You Decide to Live On Your Own Sep10

2 Things to Know Before You Decide to Live On Your Own

I only started staying on my own in 2002, when I was 25 years old. Yeah, you can say that I was a little late, but at that time, I never had a reason to leave home. It was only when a major relationship came knocking, that I decided to move out. After breaking up, I moved back in, but...

Perfectionist Parents Sep03

Perfectionist Parents

If you’re a parent, are you indirectly trying to make your child perfect? Do you PUSH them to get A’s, to excel in sports? Do you think your child is happy, or do you think because you’re a parent, you know what’s best for them? Do you set unrealistic targets for them,...

The Main Benefit of Staying Away From Plastic Bags! Jul23

The Main Benefit of Staying Away From Plastic Bags!

Yes, I have been practicing this for almost a year now – wherever possible, I turn down the use of plastic bags, particularly if I only buy a thing or 2 which I can easily carry by hand. I’m also influencing Mel to do the same and she has embraced it too. It’s simple things...

4 Things We Can Learn from Hardship Based on My Experience Jul16

4 Things We Can Learn from Hardship Based on My Experience

Hardship. At some point in life, I can say that we all go through it, at different levels. Mine, was shortly before my dad’s demise in 1986. My mom was only a housewife the day he died. We were only renting a room off Jalan Pahang as my dad was between jobs and was on the way to apply...

What’s Worse – Boredom or Stress? Apr19

What’s Worse – Boredom or Stress?

If you answered boredom, then you share my thoughts. What keeps us going? Day in and day out? We all need a purpose to live, and with boredom, it kills the purpose. Let’s face it, we all need challenge in life to keep our hearts beating, mind thinking and body working. Stress to be is...

There’s More to Life Than Just Your Job Apr07

There’s More to Life Than Just Your Job

Remember that, you can spend your whole life making all the money in the world, and by the time you’re ready to spend, you run out of time. For all you dudes out there who live for the future and not the present, look at the bigger picture because it’s the present that counts....

What Would You Do If You Know You Could Not Fail? Mar31

What Would You Do If You Know You Could Not Fail?

Pick anything. What would be the first thing you would do if you know that you will NEVER fail, a guarantee success. Pick one. Mine is to own a music company – unearthing artists, writing and producing songs.