5 Dating Insecurities of Women
You think you have issues as a dude when it comes to dating? Think twice cause women have a number of insecurities as well, no matter how they present themselves, how confident they portray, it’s just a front.
She thinks you’ll never call her after a date, and I’ve done that a few times in the past, simply because some of the dates I gone out with were simply, well, freaky. If you say you’ll call her, do call her, but delay it a couple of days, it’s one of the unspoken rule of dating. Go figure.
She thinks you want to get in her pants and then some. It’s also about timing, if you move in for the kill too soon, she will think that’s all you want, and if you take too long, she thinks you’re only interested to be friends. How I overcome this is just being genuine with your signals. I remember when I first dated my wife 3 years ago, how we both play games during the first month of dating, when sexual chemistry was at its peak. I wanted it to be perfect and always managed to control my desires because I wanted her to know that I’m looking for something more, something beyond sex. She got that signal very clearly. Here we are 3 years later, married. 
5 Dating Insecurities of Women
She thinks you’re on multiple dates. And why not? You’re single aren’t you? I’ve done the same too in the past, going on casual dates. You don’t have to be honest with your date and tell her upfront, but if she brings it up, just be honest.
She’s worried that you’re not interested. Don’t we all? If you like her, just do what most men would do, be upfront or give her flowers, or call her when she least expects it, during working hours! She’ll get the hint. Women are better at the hinting game than us men anyway.
She’s worried that she’ll won’t satisfy you in bed. What? You think only men worry about that? Performance anxiety is stressful. So, if she does it well, tell her. If you don’t like how or what she’s doing, tell her, but very subtly with positive suggestions.
Wow. In the end women and men do shares a similarity in many ways when it comes to emotions. Its just that we handle it differently.
Most of the time I don’t even know what to do in order to get a girl notice about me or my feeling for her. Sigh~ lone wolf.
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We surely do, we’re from the same species after all. As for the girl not noticing your feeling, be upfront in your approach.
I rate 10/10 for the fourth and fifth insecurities.. but in the of the day, women n men are almost the same..
Exactly.
yes.. agreed with u.. Women are better in hinting.. men pretend didn’t get the hint. ;p
I don’t think we pretend, we just don’t know what you’re hinting, can’t you be straightforward?
Great tips.. N now there is no wonder u have great chemistry with ur wife.
That I have, and I am lucky, although again, not every day is rosy mind you, we still have our disagreements.
Excellent points and I just love your blog’s new look. Refreshing change!
It took me a while to find the right theme, and when I did, I dropped it for this one! Yes, I am that spontaneous!