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What do I think of Virgins?
If we know you’re a virgin, the first impression would be that you’re sweet, innocent and homely. We believe virgins are some form of a life partner in waiting. Why? Because they are not wild, they don’t party and have a sense of restraint. The immediate picture is a picture of a perfect family. Deep inside, it is what most men want when it comes to settling down.
However, virgins also paint a picture that the reasons may be that they’re extremely insecure of themselves and hence find it difficult to get their cherries popped (because virgins do secretly dream of losing it). When they can’t find the right partner, they make up all loads of excuses as meeting the one, saving themselves for marriage and all that hoopla.
Doing it with a virgin may be interesting for men only for bragging rights. However, when a virgin is devirginized, she will open her heart and soul (because of her naivety) when making love because they think they have found THE ONE. Unfortunately, that’s where their hatred for men develops, because of getting hurt for the first time. You have to understand that men are in it only for sex with love arriving later (if emotion builds) and unlike virgins, there are no strings attached.
I commend most virgins on saving themselves for marriage if that is their TRUE intention and not because they can’t pop it. But in general, it doesn’t matter to me if the girl is a virgin or otherwise as it’s pretty much a double-edge sword.
The most important thing is that you love that someone, and virginity is not an issue. But, of course, its better not to know about the past
I agree with Cyril.
Why a double-edge sword? Will “deflowering” virgins harm us too?
My take on this.
Virgin males are boring. While as for the female, bloody mary lah.
Sorry, was that too detailed?
??? really??
do any guys out there dun mind if their future wife is not a virgin? can u deal wif “she slept wif him or him or him??” or some thing like that?? emmm..
bgung2..
I cant hardly understand men or male or sejenis dgn nya.. huhu
Edrie: Do you think males who are no longer virgin become not boring (or perhaps more interesting) overnight?
No, it’s not too detailed. I think adults would get the picture fine.
Emm…hard to say so..most people still with their ‘virginity’ view..and think that unvirgin are not good person..to me the most important is..can we be together in all situations? forget the past and move to the new dreams..hehehehe…
So when did you lose your virginity, gallivanter? Haha!
virgin or no virgin..its the heart that counts.
bobbyT: I wouldn’t say they become interesting overnight unless of course they can hold it LOL. With practice maybe but that takes time eh.
Men deflower gals thus causing gals to become ‘second-hand’ or used item. Ppl like that are so backward.
When I heard the word virgin, I would think of Virgin Mary… because Virgin doesn’t apply to human anymore, well… maybe babies and kids below 10.
You see, girls might be a virgin in the p***y but that doesn’t mean that they are pure. I knew some people back when I was younger that they don’t fck because they wanted to stay a virgin, but they do everything else, except that.
And that’s not the definition of a virgin to me… virgin is purity and just because someone hasn’t been fcked down there, doesn’t make her a virgin.
But if I picture a virgin guy, I can only think of a loser. So sad.
Boys need practice. Girls nevermind.
Cyril Dason @ cdason – OK, but this post has got nothing to do with love. Put that aside for once.
cicak – Of course.
JL – Yes, that’s when the fatal attraction starts, and if they fail to get you, they become feminists.
edrie – Yup, basically virgins are boring.
Nadia – Since when guys out there mind that their future wife is not a virgin? If a guy does mind, either he has a small penis or he has zero confidence.
BobbyT – It takes experience of course.
Alv0808 – OK, not in context of the post, nothing to do with one’s past, just the topic of virgins.
PS, most people are backward minded if they think unvirgin isn’t a good person – and most of these people are men who are not virgins. The irony.
foongpc – When I turned 21. Yup, late bloomer, almost lost my virginity in earlier but got turn off by a foul-smelling pussy.
AngeLBeaR – Really?
Again, it’s not relevant to this post, unless you’re a virgin trying to be defensive? 
edrie – Practice makes perfect.
Pinknpurplelizard – But isn’t that ridiculous, because it’s the same men who later preach about the opposite? No?
Faiez – Touche.
Bibi – Girls just open and take it all in?
Well…I believe it all boils down to how deep you love someone! But…this issues is also important in a sense that it might reflect one’s past! And possible one’s sin!
tekkaus – Again, I didn’t mention love here, but an objective view on virginity.
Interesting!
‘…because virgins do secretly dream of losing it’, are you sure?!
Yan –
lvynana – YES. Consciously or subconsciously. They’re just in denial.