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Is She Faking It?
I had a conversation with Mel a few weeks ago regarding this. About being up front with our sex lives so both of us could understand each other better, and we did just that.
How do you know if a woman’s faking it? Well, quite simple. Just ask her – tell her to be forthright about it, and then take it like a man. Do something positive about it. Communication is cardinal for gratifying sex. FACT.
Another thing is body language during and after sex. You’ll know if she’s faked it. I’ve also learned another marker for this – the nipples. If they’re erect, then she’s not faking it. Also, check her pulse, it’ll give you a good indication too. But PLEASE don’t make it so obvious, else you’ll ruin the moment for her and yourself too.
Our male ego is delicate, so during your police work with her, put your ego aside.
P/S: Foreplay is MUST.
thats why communication is VERY important in relationship.
p/s:u’ve been tagged.:D
pulse? how’s it supposed to be like? Fast??? But to be really sure, there ought to a slight shudder….right??
i guess, to know it fake or true is not the important thing. to some reason, some gal fake it because she don’t want to hurt the guys feeling. most guy not so putting much effort details when having sex. they just pass the main course and straight to the dessert. no cuddle, touching, kissing, fore play and etc. just stick their gun and shotting like crazy. it totally a turn off! if you know what i mean. i think, it’s hard to for girl to fake an orgasm if you already done your homework and research.
shana Definitely. Alamak, I don’t do tags unless it’s music related. Can I skip?
tihtahpah Well, when you’re locked in embrace, you’ll be able to sense the heightened heartbeat. And yes, there is the shudder too.
jefferi That’s true – hence my constant remark that foreplay’s a MUST!
Well said, Dan. Nice topic too. Enjoy reading your blogs of late, gives us the insight of your oh so romantic relationship with Mel. Babe, you truly look happy nowadays I’m sure Dan is keeping you busy!
Ok, let me go over to her blog and say that there.
:O
Honesty is crucial. Communication paramount. Mutual gratification is the goal. Whether the big ‘O’ is achieved or not, every single time, is besides the point. And above all to have fun!
(Without going into details, when it’s real, it’s kinda impossible to miss *cough* *cough* :p)
ohh gosh…???lol! I really wonder how to fake it. Why do the girls even bother? Girls out there, search for appropriate “porn” should do you good. Educate ourselves to enjoy as much as the guys. When I say enjoy, I mean not faking it but feeling it.
Dan, I’m looking forward to coming back to Malaysia for that double date we were meant to have!
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foreplay would be better! hehehe =P
…Indeed it is…. (in answer to your last statement)
charlenediane Thanks. It’s been a rollercoaster ride for me – enjoying every minute of it.
clement Yabah.
Jackie Well yes, though the orgasmic levels differ every now and then.
miccobayb No problem – we’ll meet up with you come back.
huei Correcto mundo.
Giddy Tiger Amen!
Foreplay is a must! Definitely! No question about it.
Sigh Gallivanter…take it from an old kopi soh, nipples get erect when cold too does not always indicate excitement, secondly foreplay NOT always a must depends on mood, many times just get right down to business is a real turn on (e.g., quickie) as far as how to tell for sure, there is a NO FAIL method and we can’t fake that one particular sign….wanna know more?
Too much too much information!
Hey Dan, I need your view on my vocals
Check it out, will you pweaasE?
papajoneh
Firehorse LOL. Thanks. I’m not a fan of quickie at all. Kinda prefer the full works – foreplay first.
Wombat Come on, I’m sure you have some juicy information to share with us. Hehehe!
miccobayb Checked it out, not bad indeed!
Aiya… simple wat… If a woman fakes an orgasm, there will be no muscle contractions and no torrent of bodily fluid gushing all over.
As important as reaching climax is, it shouldn’t be the main objective in making love. After all, it’s the journey that matters. Not the destination. A girl will surely be blown away when a guy is making love to her passionately (eventhough she didn’t come).
Wombat Well, not really.
earthy emily That’s true I suppose, but it depends on the woman.
LoL and u mentioned previously you don’t like bedroom talk and let the “oohh’s ahh’s” do D talkin? yeap communication is IMPORTANT ‘during’. Woman needs it as major bonus during foreplay. If u wanna know she’s faking it, she’ll be sleepless after that, kept tossing & turning.
oh yeah i like how jefferi is thinking he,he.. btw Dan wombat has a point there. i mean, if she’s not sweating profusely or her skin isn’t turning all red especially her face, no heartbeat racing then she’s faking it. another thing, she’s DEFINITELY NOT FAKING IT when u can feel a pulse from inside the temple shrine with your instrument.
Olieee I don’t like dirty talk la not bedroom talk.
Yes, but women do not reach that level of orgasm all the time. 
I love to love you baby…
When you’re laying so close to me
there’s no place I’d rather you be
than with me here (Moannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn…)
I love to love you baby…
– Donna Summer
ahah.. meaning extra practice on D foreplay department.. he,he,he,he.. it could mean 1 thing, not much attention on the more important area and being focused on the wrong section instead… for me, more of eye locking will do the trick.. ehe… yeah dirty talk aint tat appealing. urgh!