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Lying in Relationships
Everyone lies – stretching the truth. But can you improve your relationship through lying? How far can you stretch the truth? Some of us believe that lying is warding off telling the truth as opposed to actually not saying it. Lying by omission – the one where a trial balance also cannot discover.
Do you practice ZERO tolerance or are you okay with little lies?
A relationship that allows the pettiest of lies can erode its foundations – lying induces a snowball effect. The easiest yet toughest thing to do when you want to establish trust is to be upfront with your partner and straighten out any lies that you are currently involved in.
Let’s be factual – you will lie again. We’re human. But, you can learn to be more honest in your daily conversations. What propels you to lie? Trying to impress or trying to hide something? When you start to realize the grounds for you to lie, you will stop your lying ways of life.
My take is, if you must lie…Be smart about it, for crying out loud. But even more important is the justification for the lie. If my partner lied for a damn good reason, chances are I’ll forgive him easily.
Just keep in mind the boy who cried wolf though. You can only lie so much and get away with it.
it’s okay to lie as long as you are not found out!:D
but seriously, everyone lies. be smart about it. big lies however, is a strict no-no.
MERDEKA!
sometimes a little white lie is important..as long as it won’t hurt each other =D
I can imagine in 10 years time…
Mel: Galli dear, Does this dress make me look fat?
Gallivanter: (Oh sh*t! I remember Wombat mentioning something about this question 10 years ago. The problem is I forgot what’s the correct answer! HELP!)
If anyone think by lying it can help you strengthen or build trust in relationship…think again. And if a person think that by lying will keep their partner stay..that is just purely selfish!
Lying is a TIME BOMB waiting to happen in a relationship. That is the fact! Nevertheless, our civilization and nation was built up based on lies. Relationship does happen in this way too. “Once you lied, you need another lies to cover your previous lies and so on”. Without you realized it, you turning into a professional liar..! Do i lying? Yes, depends to situation, but i prefer not to lie in a relationship and KEEP IT HONEST at best. If you don’t want your partner lied to you, don’t do that to him/her even thou he/she a liar.
To avoid lying to each other, one have to have a mind set that half of your life belongs to her/him and half of his/her life belong to you. What ever things that one do, will effect the half of him/her and vice versa. I think it is too idealistic to have a LIE FREE relationship. So, one just have to do the best and be responsible to each other acts and you never know that a white small lie many years ago might destroy a strong family bond in a day.
people say, when you tell a lie, you have to make more lies to cover the first lie
Thanks for your thoughts people!
i believe in being transparent and honest to yr partner….