Positive Reinforcements

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Women are verbose creatures. They read between the lines. So, what you say and do strengthens her understanding of you and your perception of her. So men, make sure you notice that she exist (including the times when you watch your favorite football team kicking arse!), tell her and be sincere about it. Give to receive people.

Pick out her uniqueness that sets her apart from everyone else and appreciate them. Please be conscious of what you say. If she doesn’t like the way she looks, or is feeling like a fatso, just don’t go and slap her bum bums and tell her that you’d prefer chewing on her fat than a Whopper. But, that doesn’t mean you can’t tell her how you precisely feel about her curves. Though you pepper her with positive reinforcements, at least maintain your individuality. Don’t be a namby-pamby heebie-daba-jeebie.

Be spontaneous about your feelings and be wholehearted about it. Don’t just only acknowledge her physical curves. Sometimes, even the peculiar lines, when said with heart, has more wallop than a safe yet dull phrase. A woman may never be tired about hearing how she sexually captivates you, but sometimes, the simplest of comments will leave her enchanted by you.

Please think twice when you throw a compliment, as a woman always tell the sincereness of it – they CAN catch ulterior motives. The tone of your voice and the words that you use is crucial.

With women, BOTH words and actions count equally.