The Oral Sex Experience

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I had a reader contact me via hotmail a few weeks ago regarding this. I have long replied to her, and have decided to blog about it a little. The question was “Is are there many men out there who find it disgusting/don’t enjoy performing oral sex on their girlfriends/wives?”

The answer – YES. Speaking from personal experience, I encountered a foul outing at the threshold of turning 20 years old. It took place in Langkawi, and it was unclean. No, I didn’t even perform it, cause her odor threw me off and had me critically deliberating of joining the priesthood. It took me a good few years to be comfortable with it again. That was traumatic.

To both genders, PLEASE, at least take the effect to sufficiently wash the genitals to prepare yourselves for oral sex – it helps reduces funky odors (petai/durians/tempoyak/cincaluk). Having said that, not everyone enjoys oral sex – some have reservations about it, either oral sex is unhygienic, or it is a taboo or it is not a true expression of sexuality.

Some of my friends mentioned to me before that they feel that performing oral sex on their partner represses their masculinity because their appendage is not involved. So, I think couples should openly discuss this as, oral sex is a matter of personal preference.