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Is Flirting a Betrayal of Trust?
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I don’t believe so. Unless if you’re flirting with a “wham bam thank you ma’am” intention! It also depends on your partner, if she can handle it – if you flirt with someone, make sure you don’t encourage the person to flirt back with intentions.
If you keep it in your pants, is it still a betrayal? You must develop an understanding with your partner else she may be extremely surprised if your flirting may appear slightly more cordial to her liking.
I guess it depends on your partner.. although I do think it would actually kill the relationship you currently have *sigh*..
If only women think like man..
Trust me.. If WE DO think like men, then no marriage will work out. HAHAHAAHAH.. just kidding..
But flirting is pretty dangerous when you don’t know how to control yourself and when you can’t draw a line with the person you’re flirting with.
Stop flirting if you’re really in love with your loved one.. better be safe than sorry.
I think flirting is healthy. It keeps the “fire” burning!
But on second thought, I’d be damn pissed if my bf flirts in front of me! Hehehehe.
PS: Nice new look. 3 columns eh?
flirting is a no-no.
1) If only females thought like men
What are you talking about?? If girls think like men, it will be so cool. We don’t even NEED marriage. Marriage is for the benefit of females to tie down men to ONE girl and to rip money off him if they divorce.
Gay male couples are generally HAPPY. Have you ever watched a queer show or a gay pride parade? They have so much fun, they even overcome the many obstacles society throws at them. Lesbian couples are generally more neurotic, stalker-ish and jealous. Even Lainie would agree with this, heh!
Men like the company and brotherhood of other men who think like them, even if they are not gay.
All I must say is, BRO’S BEFORE HO’S, word!!!!!
2) Flirting
Girls: you probably got attracted and “tackled” by a guy because he kind of flirted with you. And this flirting skill was *developed* over time. You should be glad, because otherwise you wouldn’t have been interested in him
Can’t expect him to turn around 180 degrees, or stop being himself! It’s part of his personality that he is attractive to girls, and what attracted you to him in the first place.
If your guy isn’t a person who can flirt anymore, he also probably is not so romantic and flirty towards YOU anymore either.
I agree with the G. If you keep it in your pants, it’s not being unfaithful. Plus, wouldn’t it be awesome if he has the flirting skills to wow the waitress into giving the both of you great seats, or to flirt with the salesgirl into giving a discount for the present that he buys you?
it’s ok to flirt..right??? hehehe
but definitely not infront of ur gf/bf…i can’t imagine what i’ll do if my bf flirted with a girl infront of me…hmmmm
if you have a girl,the equation is as follows
Flirting = big problem :S
and if she is celous… thats worst… =P
but,for example,if u are in a relationship,is good to flirt to know if you lost the charm
But obviously,i agree with huei:
but definitely not infront of ur gf/bf
I call it harmless flirting. No touchy feely, no body contact, no exchange of bodily liquid obviously. Maybe body language, eye contacts, chit chats and some smooth talking. I’m totally OK with harmless flirting, it should stop as soon as you leave the place. I like to flirt too, one should know where to draw the line.
But the prob I encountered were usually coming from the guys I dated. They want to be able to flirt around… but can’t handle it when I flirt. No matter how harmless it was. Weird and Ridiculous at the same time.
Do not do unto others what you do not want to be done unto you?
Quite a subjective issue – but I kind of agree with you. Sometimes we flirt for fun and not to “wham-bam” as you put it – and if we know where to draw the line, perhaps it is acceptable?
if it is, then, i dun think there’s any trustworthy guys out there… so, i dun think it is.
I don’t think it’s as mucch as the flirting but the talking, if you know your other half well then you know how they will take it if you talk a lot they they know you are just having a little fun
Everyone, thank you for sharing your thoughts.
If you think flirting a betrayal of trust, and girls or guys dun believe in that….OH COME ON!!! Flirting means you want something in return in a way (responds from the other end)…period! You can look and admire, if you happens to like some part of that person, but there is not reason for you to flirt…Flirt means you want attention from the other end and if guys thinks it ok….so are they the real attention seeker?
winnie I disagree. It all comes down to the seriousness of intentions. Period.