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Is There Such a thing as a Perfect Relationship?
Perfection. Hmmmmm, you know, we are always in search of the perfect someone but does it really exist? Probably not because there are no perfect relationships.
The ideal couple would be that of a blind wife and a deaf husband because a blind wife would not be able to see the faults of her husband and a deaf husband would not be able to hear the naggings of his wife.
During courtship it often happens that a couple is abacinated by the murkiness of perfection, passion, thrill and romance which surrounds them and so even the biggest imperfections tend to become blurry.
But ultimately when the deluge of romance has desiccated, relationships need nurturing. During trying times often we become disbelieving about our relationship but giving out a little of the good within us would make our partner grow as a person and plausibly help us to a degree in making a relationship that closer to perfection.
hmmm..not sure but if we really work on it, it can be ‘ almost perfect’ but that will take times.
I believe we can do our best to make a relationship as enjoyable and as fruitful as possible. It all boils down to ourselves.
No such thing as a perfect relationship, imho. But I think that there is such a thing as a perfect match although that doesn’t mean that both are perfect, but together, the two have a perfect understanding of the deficiencies in that imperfect relationship and always strive to improve or accept where improvement may not be an option.
We are all humans and nothing we say or do can ever be perfect. We only do our very best in keeping a relationship healthy and strong by accepting each other’s flaws and cherishing each other’s goodness. What makes us happy is different in degrees of acceptance. Near perfection can be achieved.. never completely! Good one Daniel..
no perfecto..no women no cry…hehee…if you’re in a relationship..its a career you for you..career that require you to work hard to make it works and bettered…
Do perfect relationship exist? I’m not sure about that.. because we never seen one! hehheee..whatever it is, we are the one should made perfect to ourself before the relationship..
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there’s no perfect but we can compromise each other to form a perfect one
all stages of relationship need works; from courting to marriage. perfection between humans I believe will never be achieved since even identical twins can’t 100% understand each other. Plus, we need to argue every now and then or life would be bored.. hehehhe.
The perfect relationship is when both can accept the flaws of each other. Accept as in really accept and make peace, not accept today reject tomorrow (i.e before marriage accept, after marriage reject go find new leng lui).
Compromise (Say Less), Acceptance (See Less) and Communication (Listen More) is the key to near perfect relationship.
Hi Gallivanter, love doesn’t make the World go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
And we come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
And if you would be loved, love and be lovable.
Have a nice day, Lee.
i believe there is a thing called perfect relationship,if both parties can accept each other’s imperfection. My wife is not a perfect wife but then again i am not a perfect husband either and that acknoledgement makes our relationship perfect ditto……
hey luv your blog, hope to hear from you,,, be happy no matter what ( i am learning too)
take care
Perfect relationship? Only exists in movies! : )
More important is relationship with ourselves before we think of relationship with others : )
My opinion would be that there isnt such a thing as a ‘perfect relationship’ as nobody is perfect himself. The relationship could get as wonderful and beautiful as it could be as long as there is trust, loyalty and deep understanding between the 2 involved in the relationship. Having accepted of each others’ flaws and loving each other in good or bad terms is good enough… Why try to search for the ‘perfect’ relationship when being happy is all what a couple really needs?
there is no ‘perfect relationship’… even the phrase ‘happily ever after’ only for movies… i say.. it depends the two different person whom runs the relationship.. how they want to feel, responsibility and their action towards each other.. it can be almost perfect!
deana – Yeah, it is work for both persons to make it work. A work in progress so to speak.
tekkaus – Agreed.
justju – Yes, understanding is KEY.
Jen – Great comment.
wel – LOL! I can’t use the career as an analogy for a relationship, because I think it’s different.
Alv0808 – Yeah, but we should not change too much to be “perfect” for the other party, and lose ourselves in the process.
Chandelier – Compromise, that’s a good word.
elcynthia – Actually you’re right, argument “balances” the relationship, healthy arguments keeps your feet on the ground.
Faiez – LOL. Of course once accept after marriage, don’t la undo. It works on both sex, even women these days cheat you know.
mumsgather – Touche.
Uncle Lee – Cheers!
eugene – Correcto mundo. And of course I’m happy, my topics has got nothing to do with the state that I’m in, I’m just giving out my thoughts on them.
foongpc – Ya man, that Snow White movie is bad for children. Hahahaha!
ElainE – Thanks for your thoughts, sometimes, happiness isn’t good enough. Think about it.
shirley aka beautiza – Yes, it can be almost perfection, but that’s how a relationship is, it’s like your car, it needs maintenance to continue to be almost perfect.