I have a hard time giving my employees unconditional trust from the start. My years of job experience has taught me that trust has to be earned and not given immediately from the start. The upside is the employees have to work harder to impress and to gain employers trust. The downside of it...
Grudges & Forgiveness
posted by Gallivanter
I have to admit, with some people I hate, I still hold grudges no matter how hard I tried to forgive them. Who? Relatives. How can I forgive a number of relatives who alienated my mom, my brother and I when my father died in 1986? I won’t go into details but it has scarred me to the...
20 Relationship Decrees
posted by Gallivanter
[ad] 1 – We are captivated to others for a plethora of reasons, just assess your possible partner as you would a friend. 2 – We have dissimilar impressions about relationships, know each other’s beliefs. 3 – In the beginning of a relationship,...
Disrespectful Upbringing of Children
posted by Gallivanter
[ad] Who are we to shoot? Obviously not the children, because monkey see monkey do. WTF is wrong with parents these days? There is a fine line between being a kiasu parent and a moron. I’ve seen many children developing the asshole syndrome. When I see their parents, I can see how the...
The Killers – Human (Day & Age) and Oasis Album Review
posted by Gallivanter
“Human” is The Killer’s next single, taken off their latest album, “Day & Age”. It sounds a little like Pet Shop Boys meet New Order. I was taken aback when the beat came a buzzing, but after a while, thought it was OK. Still, it’s nowhere near to their...
Jealousy Damages Relationships
posted by Gallivanter
[ad] We have all experienced this, though our reasons may vary. A wide range of emotions are involved – pain, anger, fear, blame, bitterness, ceaseless questioning and reassurances. Jealousy is catastrophic to a relationship because it erodes trust and chokes the progression of love. If...
