With social platforms like Facebook, it’s so easy for all of us to keep track of our friends’ birthdays, or to follow their updates on life without requiring to pick up the phone for a chat. Some updates or chats are fine through the net but here are some talks which I believe a...
Relationship Playfulness – The Art of Being Quirky
posted by Gallivanter
In your relationships, do you still have some form of playfulness left? Has it disappeared under the various elements of working, paying bills, house chores and sleep? Have you realized it and tried to keep it alive? I can’t say what lies ahead for me in the future, but I can confidently...
Relationship Communication vs Mobile Phone Texting
posted by Gallivanter
I noticed that in some relationships, the communication takes place most of the time via phone texting. Why is that so? If you’re in a relationship, is that how you want to treat the one you love? I know some of you will say it’s because you’re using pre-paid so you save cost...
Can One ever Remain Friends with an Ex?
posted by Gallivanter
I don’t think so. There is no such thing as a mutual breakup. One is usually the heartbreaker, and that person usually feels very bad and provides friendship in return as a peace offering. OK, here are some reasons why you can never remain friends with your ex. Firstly, you’ve seen...
Quantity vs Quality – A Shift in Sexual Paradigm
posted by Gallivanter
There was initially one school of thought about the frequency of sex. I believe the paradigm is shifting. The old perspective is that the lesser the better, i.e. it’s all about quality. However, I think with the progress of human sexuality over the decades, this no longer holds...
Slim – Apologize (Love’s Crazy)
posted by Gallivanter
[ad] This dude was a part of an R&B boyband called 112. I remember 112, but I can’t recall any of their tunes. I’m guessing their efforts were too tepid to make my list of the 4000+ songs that I own. Anyway, this tune, is an alternative R&B version of the namesake by One...
Is Age a Factor in a Relationship?
posted by Gallivanter
Is age really an issue? 4 years? 8 years? We do sometimes carry around these age difference fears. In fact, the age difference is an issue, whether or not it should be – eventually this is going to be a deal breaker. So, enjoy the ride and forget about rejection. In the long run she...
The Oral Sex Experience
posted by Gallivanter
[ad] I had a reader contact me via hotmail a few weeks ago regarding this. I have long replied to her, and have decided to blog about it a little. The question was “Is are there many men out there who find it disgusting/don’t enjoy performing oral sex on their...
