Regrettably, as with many things in life when confronted with the challenge of time, friendships do come and go. I had 2 really good friends in the past, but circumstances made it inconceivable to continue the friendship. Good thing for me neither of them were faultfinding, egoistic, needy,...

I know that most times, men are simple creatures, we are easy to understand because we do not give hints but direct obvious answers staring at your face. Having said that, some guys may not be as upfront about his feelings. So how do you tell if he’s in love with you? Eye Contact The...

I have to admit, I have done that a lot in the past, not so much these days. I always wondered how some of my friends hit the jackpot while I’m still trudging away making ends meet. While I am aware that it’s unhealthy, I used it to energize my motivation to improve myself. Yes,...

This post was inspired by a colleague of mine whom shared his difficulties and is being pushed to the brink of breaking up with his other half. Isn’t it ironic that after we live together sometime, the feeling of love can dissipate? You may think since you know each other very well, you...

This song I dig, unfortunately can’t say much for his name, but that’s just a personal view. What he lacks in a memorable name he makes it up with this smooth R&B ballad rendition that is a possible swooner for the ladies, for men who are too shy to put it into words to express...

Based from what I have experienced, I was overwhelmed initially! Especially when there are so many finer points to decide. I know one thing is for sure, I can easily see myself spending 50 years of my life with Mel, although there is a lot of hard work involved to make it work. It’s...

I have to admit, with some people I hate, I still hold grudges no matter how hard I tried to forgive them. Who? Relatives. How can I forgive a number of relatives who alienated my mom, my brother and I when my father died in 1986? I won’t go into details but it has scarred me to the...

No, we do not think about sex all the time. The only fact that I do not deny is that we tend to get stimulated much faster than women. It really does not take much but if it does, either the dude’s a homo or he’s just uninterested in you. We get turned out by anything visual. Women...

[ad] There’s no such thing as going through life getting along with EVERYONE. It’s part of evolution that assholes are introduced to keep the world in check You can’t run from them, because no matter how fast you run, there’s always an asshole behind you.  The good...

By shamming to be someone that they’re not – women sometimes falsify interests and taradiddle about their past to shanghai a man, but sooner or later the truth will show itself. A needy woman is PLAIN ANNOYING, when she cannot seem to have a life without him. Men detest needy...

Couples out there, if you’re not communicating your sexual needs to each other, I suggest you do so for the good of the relationship. Sure, a relationship is not all about sex, but sex is very much part of a relationship. So stop living in denial. You may not want to hurt your...

[ad] Women are verbose creatures. They read between the lines. So, what you say and do strengthens her understanding of you and your perception of her. So men, make sure you notice that she exist (including the times when you watch your favorite football team kicking arse!), tell her and be...