It depends on your age really. Younger men are more emotionally influenced by the quality of their relationship while younger women are mentally affected by their happiness of simply not being alone. That’s why most younger women jump into relationship to feel happy. Men rely on their...

It is only natural that you develop some form of rivalry with your siblings. It’s because of the instinct to win over the hearts of the parents to be the star in the family. I have no problems with my younger brother who is in fact doing much better than me and I’ll always be proud...

You think you have issues as a dude when it comes to dating? Think twice cause women have a number of insecurities as well, no matter how they present themselves, how confident they portray, it’s just a front. She thinks you’ll never call her after a date, and I’ve done that...

I have a colleague whose girlfriend clings to him like a fly to a shit. Haha! Anyway, if you’re the clingy type, then I suggest you read this, so you can both have independence in your relationship, which is important to growth. Before you read the points below, please bear in mind that...

I only started staying on my own in 2002, when I was 25 years old. Yeah, you can say that I was a little late, but at that time, I never had a reason to leave home. It was only when a major relationship came knocking, that I decided to move out. After breaking up, I moved back in, but...

The buildup makes you think it’s a slow R&B track by Shontelle, but a minute later you’ll have your fist pumping in the air embracing the lyrics laid out in a relationship gone sour. I strongly believe this track will go down well with ladies who are going through some form of...

What would be the worst don’t to do online when you’re in a relationship? These are some of my thoughts. 1. Fighting on Facebook I’ve seen it happen, more indirectly than confrontational. The status updates usually gives it away, and most of the time, it’s usually the...

This is a mellow track from Honor by August, and I think it’s their best song from their latest album. The verses are easy on the ears and the chorus delivers a haunting tune that packs a decent punch. It may not blaze any charts anytime soon, but it’s a very easy listening track...

I think I can safely generalize this to a certain extent. When it comes to dressing up to go out, women will always put on their tops first while us men always put on our pants first. Let me pose this question out there for all of my visitors – does it ring true, especially to those of...

This is an old song by Firehouse, 12 years to be exact. It was from the album after the album that gave us “I Live My Life For You”. While this song fails to capture the momentum of that track, it’s still a decent rock ballad of sorts. I know many people have a love-hate...

How shall I sum up us men? We like to keep it simple and forthright. Here are some things that we wish women knew about us. We like compliments once in a while, but not lavish praises, it’s good to be acknowledged with the reasons that we were chosen to be with you in the first place....

In your relationships, do you still have some form of playfulness left? Has it disappeared under the various elements of working, paying bills, house chores and sleep? Have you realized it and tried to keep it alive? I can’t say what lies ahead for me in the future, but I can confidently...